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    I've gotten a bunch of requests to make a video about this topic, so HERE WE GO. There's a certain phenomenon going on right now on the internet, and that is the "i'm not like most girls" style of content. I'm sure you've seen it before, but in this video; we take a closer look and dive deep into the real issue with these posts.
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Komentarze • 54 057

  • Kurtis Conner
    Kurtis Conner  3 lat temu +67196

    Like the video if u eat dirt :p XD
    also let me know what other topics u want me to cover!!!

    • EuphemisticHug
      EuphemisticHug 4 miesięcy temu

      yo Kurtis the most popular video you will ever make has an audio fuck up at 2:50

    • Hidbid
      Hidbid 6 miesięcy temu

      Replies are now closed. Watch the damn video

    • doomer
      doomer 7 miesięcy temu

      yes

    • Seth Wright
      Seth Wright 7 miesięcy temu

      last reply u lost the game

    • Seth Wright
      Seth Wright 7 miesięcy temu

      499

  • love from jay
    love from jay Rok temu +26738

    Why do people act like being feminine is a bad thing

    • kaesang ikati
      kaesang ikati 4 dni temu

      Im not, but i find it cool though

    • e is bread
      e is bread 9 dni temu

      Dunno

    • Angatita
      Angatita 12 dni temu +1

      @Vulnresati not me, femboys are the absolute best 😩 I want one of my own but idk where to get one. Men on dating apps are too… not femboys lol

  • ghost / salem
    ghost / salem 5 miesięcy temu +3702

    Say it with me now:
    *IT IS OKAY TO BE FEMININE*

    • Bone Crunch
      Bone Crunch 9 dni temu

      @every thing 10/10 comment good job

    • Ravyn Taylor
      Ravyn Taylor 11 dni temu

      Me and my girlfriend are both femmes and people say we don’t “look gay” because of it- so I think this also applies to femme gays ✨

    • α'ℓιηg (つㅅ・`)・゜
      α'ℓιηg (つㅅ・`)・゜ 19 dni temu

      @silversable read my comment. First even if. You do change ur body you will still have female and male cells and male who even change ur bodies still won't hey pregnant like a real woman

    • Reagan Davidson
      Reagan Davidson 28 dni temu

      Thisssss

  • g00mblin 143
    g00mblin 143 4 miesięcy temu +2424

    I'm not like other girls, I'm a rat who has a passion for cooking

    • Diesel Hayes
      Diesel Hayes Dzień temu +1

      Remy isn't like other girls, Remy is our trans king✨✨✌🏻🥺🥰

    • Mango The Duck
      Mango The Duck 24 dni temu +1

      Only the real ones will get this

    • 13_BlueJay
      13_BlueJay Miesiąc temu +6

      Yassss Remy queen 😙💅🏼

    • I am Lazy
      I am Lazy Miesiąc temu +9

      Alright Marcel 🙄

  • Max
    Max 2 miesięcy temu +672

    fun fact: i used to be a "i'm not like other girls" girl. now it turns out i'm not a girl at all lmfao

  • aspacecocoon
    aspacecocoon 3 miesięcy temu +763

    As someone who unfortunately used to be a "I'm not like other girls" before the age of social media I can definitely say it's all internalized misogyny.
    You get it pounded into your head that anything even remotely conventionally feminine automatically equals shallow and stupid. You like dressing up and makeup? You're shallow and only doing it for male attention, couldn't possibly be for yourself. And obviously it's impossible to like both that and videogames or reading at the same time.
    It's more saddening than anything to see women turn on each other like this, even now.
    One silver lining, however, are all the fanart that has come from the "average" girl and "other" girl being cute girlfriends 🤣

    • aspacecocoon
      aspacecocoon 17 dni temu +4

      @HaVoCxMosquito You're the one who said men, not me. Lol. Society does indeed include women so I was influenced by them too.
      Not to mention you aren't providing any sort of argument for the reality that ideas and prejudices aren't born out of thin air.
      I fully admitted that I had internalized misogyny which you don't seem to know the definition of which means I was fully admitting in my first comment that it was my fault? Cause I should have not agreed with it as I do now but like all prejudices it is something that does not exist innately but is ingrained. Which is why anyone is capable of stopping if they actually think critically about how stupid it is to judge someone by whether they are a man, woman, or anything else.
      You two seem to take this real personally. Why is that?

    • HaVoCxMosquito
      HaVoCxMosquito 23 dni temu

      @Josh Smith ye man she decided to agree with it so its other peoples fault and not hers, its the men!

    • aspacecocoon
      aspacecocoon Miesiąc temu +11

      @Josh Smith I have. That's why I'm not like that anymore. And that's why it's internalized misogyny. Cause I decided to agree with awful ideas I saw in the world. Actions and beliefs aren't born out of thin air.

    • Josh Smith
      Josh Smith 2 miesięcy temu

      How about you take some responsibility for you own behavior

  • Anna Dalessio
    Anna Dalessio Rok temu +22180

    I’m not like other girls-I’m sexist and I’m desperate for male attention💗✨🧚🏻‍♀️

  • idkwtftpamu
    idkwtftpamu 6 miesięcy temu +766

    My friend edited an "I'm not like other girls" meme to say "I'm not like other girls, I'm a boy" as a way of coming out to his brother as trans. The meme was super deep fried level, it was fucking stupid. He's my hero

    • Kamal Simmons
      Kamal Simmons 15 dni temu

      @Charlie I agree that respect is basic, though not that it is always easy. I only disagree with the sentiment that anyone "needs" to respect anyone else.
      You don't even have to respect the president, much less me. You know what I mean?

    • Charlie
      Charlie 15 dni temu +3

      @Kamal Simmons I mean I feel respect is litterally the most basic thing, not that hard lmao.

    • Gülşah Kara
      Gülşah Kara 17 dni temu +4

      OMG WHAT DID SKUKI SAY? It’s no longer here I NEED TO KNOW

  • Steph McLeahy
    Steph McLeahy 6 miesięcy temu +390

    I used to have this mindset in middle school, and was so proud of all my cool guy friends. And then I was partnered with a 'popular girl' in a class for a project, and we were both awkward, but after a few minutes we realized we were into a lot of the same stuff. We never ended up as friends, but that experience kept me from going down this road. Everyone likes chicken nugs. People who party also have nights where they stay in and binge TV. 50% of all gamers are women now. I fully blame my mom for telling me for years that all women are catty and backstabbing and shallow, which I internalized. All the 'cool guy friends' ended up dropping me anyway when they found out I had no interest in dating any of them.

    • Focused Fighter
      Focused Fighter 3 dni temu +1

      ''50% of all gamers are women now''
      Yeah but it is extra cringe to see how many men still pretend, loud and clear on all social medias: that women don't play games or can't, and that 'there is no way a girl takes gaming seriously', but I'm one of them and I exist. I don't magically disppear due to their biased view, yet all the proofs are out there but they put their head in the sand, they don't want to hear it, acknowledge it.
      Skills isn't about gender and we keep proving it: but damn they can't take it whenever a woman wins I game, the rape threat abounds even more then.
      it's super pathetic and I never play online because of all this.
      I've experienced this first-hand and so does my friends, it never goes away. Why should we all pay for their insecurities, they need to evolve F sake.

    • [Bear.ily]
      [Bear.ily] 5 miesięcy temu +4

      Fr my mom does the same thing.

    • Kusogaki
      Kusogaki 5 miesięcy temu +33

      This.
      I had a friend who was dumped 8 times by 8 different guys, it turns out they only ever became "friends" because she is good looking, she isn't the "I'm not like other girls" type of person, but she likes being close to guys because she feels safer near guys, they just used her for this.

  • Lia
    Lia 25 dni temu +26

    There was a case study done in the early 2000s that examined homophobia in small town high schools and to (over)simplify a really great book, it basically found that the reason boys were homophobic is because 1. Society vilifies all things feminine and 2. Fear of other men committing violence against them
    *TW: the book title has a slur
    The Book is “Dude, You’re A F**”

  • SanGal_101
    SanGal_101 17 dni temu +7

    It’s a sad case of internalized misogyny. I dealt with this mentality too at one point.

  • Sonam C
    Sonam C Rok temu +10664

    FEMINISM AND FEMININITY CAN COEXIST

    • ItzBlu
      ItzBlu Miesiąc temu

      @Isla Nangle well as someone that’s Genderfluid.. femininity≠female/woman and same goes for masculinity. The terms are for how people present themselves, but it has nothing to do with gender. I can be a feminine man one day and a masculine man the next. Both men. Different presentation. That’s why I think the labels shouldn’t be erased. I don’t want to be constricted to dressing stereotypically to be validated in my gender.

    • light ghost
      light ghost Miesiąc temu

      @fungus_gnat Thank you.

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat Miesiąc temu +2

      @light ghost i think the real point here is that all types of people suck equally so we just need to stop assuming people are better just because of some kind of attribute about them. for real dude, that link you posted got me real hard, that dude be spittin FACTS out here.

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat Miesiąc temu +1

      @light ghost dayummmmm that video just called out the entire everyone ever 👏. what i was getting at was a general societal attitude towards BOTH men and women to treat them the same in that they are given the same expectations and held to the same standards kinda stuff, not just women need to be treated better, but that no one should have a double standard against them. you're video shows that EXPLICITLY WELL 👌👌

  • Why do I have to have a name?
    Why do I have to have a name? 5 miesięcy temu +243

    I’m not like other girls. I’m non binary, pls stop misgendering me
    Edit: four months later I’m not non binary I’m the q in lgbtq+ that I can’t say otherwise yt will delete my comment. I use all pronouns now yay. I like finding my old comments from when I was questioning it’s funny

    • Ravyn Taylor
      Ravyn Taylor 11 dni temu

      I’m not like most girls, I’m intersex, & I use she/they pronouns

    • Ha1ley Be4r
      Ha1ley Be4r 14 dni temu +1

      @digplantdig ᓚᘏᗢ OH MY GOD, SOMEONE ELSE THATS PANGENDER? I’ve never met someone that’s also pangender!!! That’s so cool

    • digplantdig ᓚᘏᗢ
      digplantdig ᓚᘏᗢ 21 dzień temu +4

      im pangender so people can literally not misgender me

    • Esteemed character actress Margo Martindale
      Esteemed character actress Margo Martindale 2 miesięcy temu +3

      @sam roll with it, dude! Labels ain’t everything :)

    • sam
      sam 2 miesięcy temu +1

      mood but idk wtf my gender is yet (if I have one or not)

  • This Human
    This Human 6 miesięcy temu +296

    The Harley Quinn one could have been so much better: “I am not Sleeping Beauty waiting for Prince Charming, I am Harley Quinn waiting for my Ivy :)

    • The Jaded Grouch
      The Jaded Grouch Miesiąc temu +1

      Or if they were attracted to men "waiting for my Nightwing". I mean, who doesn't love an honorable, trustworthy guy with the greatest ass- I mean personality... yeah, that.

    • Hotdog Car
      Hotdog Car 4 miesięcy temu +1

      @This Human she's not in my basement anymore, but she ain't coming back

    • This Human
      This Human 4 miesięcy temu +3

      Is she? You should check again…

    • Hotdog Car
      Hotdog Car 4 miesięcy temu +1

      @This Human she's in my basement, feeding my pet Tarbosaurus with babies

    • This Human
      This Human 4 miesięcy temu +6

      Umm…….
      *I’ve been caught I’ve been caught play it cool*
      Heyyyy, Adora…

  • itsbea
    itsbea 3 miesięcy temu +82

    Hilariously, my “not like other girls” phase was half correct because I’m not a girl.

    • Oululainen
      Oululainen 3 miesięcy temu +11

      Character development

  • Apoorva Sudhir
    Apoorva Sudhir 5 miesięcy temu +75

    15:49 the true crime genre (the research was done on true crime podcasts) actually has a predominantly female audience (73%, Boring and Hull, 2018) so if anyone is trying to use that point to be unique/different/quirky they are going the opposite way :")

    • die andere Amanda
      die andere Amanda 29 dni temu +1

      Off topic but omg is "Boring and Hull" the source? Like is there a scientist named Boring? 😂

    • Miss Hippie
      Miss Hippie Miesiąc temu +1

      Interesting.. i wonder why women are drawn to it more?

  • Laneen
    Laneen 10 miesięcy temu +14306

    I think my favorite things about the "I'm not like other girls" trend is when a person draws fanart of the "quirky" girl and the "generic " girl falling in love

  • quinn.e ☽
    quinn.e ☽ 2 miesięcy temu +35

    I had my “not like other girls” phase like back in year 6 but now I want to be “like other girls” and embrace my femininity instead of pushing it away in denial

  • kris?
    kris? 4 miesięcy temu +25

    instead of being rooted purely in mysogeny, i think the "not like most girls" thing came from girls wanting to feel 3 dimensional, unlike the stereotypes of women being all about fashion, makeup, salad, only liking pop music. it does come from mysogeny, but not directly from the girl themself. from the way society has taught girls what is "normal"

    • maya papaya
      maya papaya 4 miesięcy temu +11

      which is funny because that’s also caused by misogyny lol

  • Charlee Stone
    Charlee Stone 26 dni temu +7

    "I'm not like most girls, I'm a truck", killed me lmao!!!!

  • i don’t exist
    i don’t exist 11 dni temu +3

    Shoutout to all the people who had a “not like other girls” phase and then turned out to be not a girl… welcome to the club lmao

  • teebo
    teebo 2 lat temu +19995

    I’m not like other girls, i’m a 40 year old man

    • Kira Zaman
      Kira Zaman 2 dni temu

      Queen

    • Samurai Cheems
      Samurai Cheems 29 dni temu

      @that adorfullyy you see the joke is that a lot of Reddit user have a anime profile picture and are usually guys. Also catfishing.

    • that adorfullyy
      that adorfullyy Miesiąc temu

      @Samurai Cheems what?

    • Samurai Cheems
      Samurai Cheems Miesiąc temu

      Reddit moment

    • deathstrike2115
      deathstrike2115 2 miesięcy temu

      I'm not like other girls, I'm a male teen

  • RowanChaos
    RowanChaos 3 miesięcy temu +9

    I used to do this, and then I realised why I hung out with guys so much and did stuff that was traditionally masculine while being a 'girl'.
    I'm trans

  • ScoliSinger
    ScoliSinger 6 miesięcy temu +11

    i think it comes from the sexist viewpoint that being "feminine" or "girly" is negative. but actually it's not. it's fine to be girly, not girly or somewhere in between: all of which are fine regardless of what genitalia you have.

  • Bonita
    Bonita 5 miesięcy temu +19

    I felt bad for Kurtis when Kurtis yelled at Kurtis for Kurtis taking Kurtis out for a nice dinner

  • Alize Flores
    Alize Flores 4 miesięcy temu +9

    kurtis remembering that lesbians exist is so funny 11:40

  • bub by
    bub by Rok temu +17719

    Am i the only girl that likes breathing???? I do it all day.

    • G
      G 4 miesięcy temu +2

      What?!? You too??? I thought I was the only one...

    • Wadiha Sayfi
      Wadiha Sayfi 4 miesięcy temu

      1. I do that too, it is so much fun
      2. I thought of AG for some reason

    • kaz
      kaz 4 miesięcy temu +1

      omg rly?? i want you in my boy squad! most girls are friends with girls, but i'm not like them. i guess i'm just a little different te-he! so we called it boy squad, im the only girl there hhahahah but you can join too! the boys and I would love for you to come play video games with us like some girls make fun of me but it's all about that minecraft you know what i mean hahaahhah

    • FrshChees91
      FrshChees91 5 miesięcy temu

      Breathe in moderation

    • Margarita Peggy Schuyler Van Rensselaer
      Margarita Peggy Schuyler Van Rensselaer 5 miesięcy temu

      Omg I could never- I’m too busy converting oxygen to carbon dioxide

  • potato
    potato 4 miesięcy temu +5

    I love food, hate partying, hate makeup and drama, love Netflix and horror movies but that just makes me the average girl that I am.

  • Baxter Mitchell
    Baxter Mitchell 2 miesięcy temu +5

    So when I was way younger I used to be the "I'm not like other girls." Person. Looking back I realize that I was projecting my own insecurities on other girls. As I grew up and actually got to know what other girls were like I realized. I was always like other girls and that the only reason I felt like I wasn't like them was because of what I was told a girl is ment to be/look like. Also I realized I was Trans, but because I grew up as a girl in a closed minded household I heavy relate to a lot of struggles that girls/women my age were going through. There's so much weird shame that comes with being a girl, and from such a young age. Just forcing of gender roles and stereotypes that honestly made a good portion of young girls feel dehumanized. It was suffocating growing up and isolating. I felt so alone in my struggle to find myself after being forced by myself and others to fit he idea of what a girl/women was.

  • Mylo Dagemawi
    Mylo Dagemawi 27 dni temu +7

    I wonder when people will stop idolizing Harley Quinn and Jokers relationship. It's extremely abusive, the actual basis of the relationship being Joker manipulating Harley Quinn into throwing her life away and becoming obsessed with him.

  • Louise Netzlaw
    Louise Netzlaw 3 miesięcy temu +6

    When I was 13 or 14 I was one of those "I´m not like other girls"- girls. Consuming those trending books, at that time, movies and social media made it even worse. It´s a trend of young girls trying to not fit in, fit in. (I hope you understand what I mean) It was a hard time for me and I tried to compensate that. So my internalized mysogenic side showed up and made everything worse. Now I know that both sides don´t exist. We´re all some kind of girly or not. It´s not bad or something and I feel so bad for my younger self, that I grew up thinking, I have to hate all other women. Because the other women are less `"cooler" and I have to be more into books, no trends and I have to hate other girls. I thought other girls are a competition. I´m so glad that, that changed.

  • Faith Church
    Faith Church 2 lat temu +15654

    am i the only girl that finds converting oxygen to carbon dioxide fun 😂 😂😂

    • Richie
      Richie Miesiąc temu

      I'm A BOY BUT IT IS SO FUN OMGGG
      TURNiNG InTO a PlANt Is FUnN-ER

    • BlackRose
      BlackRose 2 miesięcy temu

      How dare you?!

    • 🍪FarawayOasis☕
      🍪FarawayOasis☕ 2 miesięcy temu

      Your so quirky and different

    • Abby
      Abby 2 miesięcy temu

      yes

  • MBR091
    MBR091 3 miesięcy temu +13

    I didn't even realize this was uploaded 2 years ago because it's so relevant. Ladiesss, there is no need to constantly compare literally every aspect of your life to other women... The only person you should compare yourself to, is you. People are allowed to have different interests and lifestyles, but there's going to be other people who also have similar interests and lifestyles to you, because that's just how the world works...
    *Insert generic ass quote here:*
    _A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it; it just blooms._

  • bonk
    bonk 5 miesięcy temu +7

    I’m not like most girls, I suffer from crippling anxiety rooted in childhood trauma

  • Dayana Bejarano
    Dayana Bejarano 29 dni temu +2

    In my experience, I can say that all women through for the phase "I'm not like other girls" it was our way to feel special.

  • tome1701
    tome1701 3 miesięcy temu +6

    Kurtis is the type of guy you wanna be friends with he's just so chill and down to earth

  • AlexJia
    AlexJia 2 lat temu +5275

    fun fact: there's actually more girls staying at home eating pizza than girls spending nights at the club... the party sociable girls are technically 'not like the other girls''

    • sinq sliva
      sinq sliva 14 dni temu

      They're literally just a bit louder

    • Gülşah Kara
      Gülşah Kara 17 dni temu +2

      GET THEM

    • Yu Wai
      Yu Wai 22 dni temu

      Absolutely true

    • Wesley Wyndam-Pryce
      Wesley Wyndam-Pryce 28 dni temu

      @Lilly Pharaoh thats a lie

    • Jullly Dean
      Jullly Dean Rok temu +3

      Yeah it is just because the movies etc tries to convince us that everybody has a party life what we obviously don’t have

  • BinturongGirl
    BinturongGirl 5 miesięcy temu +8

    When I went through my NLOG phase it was to try to reassure myself that I did have something to offer (not to men, just in general) because I felt very inadequate and some degree of shame regarding my own (perceived lack of) femininity.
    If I was very obviously not trying to be like other girls, then nobody would be able to tell that I was falling short.
    I felt like I wasn't performing "girl" well enough, and that was humiliating.
    Being NLOG for me was not about being superior to vapid girly-girls clichés, it was trying to make myself feel less inferior to girls who were confident in their femininity in a way I still haven't managed to be.

  • yeri u.u
    yeri u.u 6 miesięcy temu +9

    I loove makeup and I want to be a mechanic! ^^
    There is nothing wrong with being feminine, it’s actually really rad working on what I love with something that I like on :)

  • Finn_in_the_Bin
    Finn_in_the_Bin 11 dni temu +2

    fun fact! i went through a *very* long 'not like other girls' phase
    i now know i am, in fact, a trans man XD

  • Miss Hiccup
    Miss Hiccup 3 miesięcy temu +5

    I used to be one of these girls but it was when I was 11 years old, I had to be "not like the other girls" luckily it died out by the time I was 15 and I got over it😂 (28 years old now and I'm just a moody tired human, nothing more, nothing special 😂)

  • Kylie
    Kylie 2 lat temu +25933

    I’m not like most girls…I don’t eat food…I photosynthesize

  • K
    K 18 dni temu +1

    I just want to say, I work with my hands in the dirt and grime often, I’ve ridden horses my whole life, and I’m not afraid of being stupid and having fun by rough housing 😂 but then I’ll show up some wear in heels and pantsuit, wearing perfume and makeup with my nails done. It’s the best of both worlds ladies, don’t be afraid of either side ❤️ be badass and feminine at the same time

  • N
    N 2 miesięcy temu +8

    I feel attacked because of the thumbnail. I’m a true crime lover and I don’t do make-up or go parties. But it’s because I’m depressed.

  • Angeliqa Monique
    Angeliqa Monique 3 miesięcy temu +4

    I’m not like other girls, murder documentaries scare me 💖

  • Chris do this
    Chris do this 4 miesięcy temu +3

    I feel like he needs to make a video dedicated to the girls who say “I bet I can outsmoke you” on tinder cause they’re a whole issue in themselves

  • luv_theluv
    luv_theluv 2 lat temu +33322

    To be honest, the “other girls” are more unique at this point

    • Darine Elgendy
      Darine Elgendy 2 miesięcy temu

      @Noor erm..you do u ig..:)?

    • Mymilktastessour
      Mymilktastessour 2 miesięcy temu

      Ikr XD

    • ✨Batifyy✨
      ✨Batifyy✨ 2 miesięcy temu

      Ikr
      I was always like "I'm the other girl :(" but I realized that if everyone is claims to the "Me" then Maybe j-just maybe I'm the different one and by that I mean *I am*

    • nicole avery
      nicole avery 3 miesięcy temu

      Nah they’re still basic too

  • a normal gamer dude
    a normal gamer dude 3 miesięcy temu +23

    I'm not like other girls... Because I'm a nonbinary guy

    • I watched too much Saiki k
      I watched too much Saiki k 3 miesięcy temu +3

      I'm not like the other girls, sometimes I *am* a guy. I am too genderfluid for society, so quirky 😨

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu +3

      lmaoooo why doesn't this have more likes

  • BSbob
    BSbob 22 dni temu +3

    "I'm twerkin on dudes"-Kurtis Conner 2019

  • Shley Leo
    Shley Leo 2 miesięcy temu

    I love this video. I always come back to it. You are articulate on a level I strive to match. Thank you for being you. 😁

  • Arson Anarchy Bunny
    Arson Anarchy Bunny 2 miesięcy temu

    When I was younger I used to act like this. But I've healed from realizing that it's not that I'm "not like other girls", I actually "am not like girls."

  • Neolin
    Neolin Rok temu +21536

    “I’m not like other girls”
    Other girls: “same”

    • 『 SøfiGrün 』
      『 SøfiGrün 』 Rok temu +1

      @Stella Cintra Gordinho Guardia I’m not ruining 69 likes

    • Ushiromiya Battler
      Ushiromiya Battler Rok temu

      @Neolin genius

    • Zero % Free speech
      Zero % Free speech Rok temu

      Exactly haha👌🏿

    • Anncy L
      Anncy L Rok temu

      I'm not like other girls because I'm ugly af😂

    • Neolin
      Neolin Rok temu

      @Ushiromiya Battler life isn’t just about anime though. Your friends and family matter too. If you want an onee-san hentai, go ahead and ask your sister!

  • Ruby Roy
    Ruby Roy 2 miesięcy temu +2

    He had such a good opportunity to say if your aloud to post them we are allowed to roast them

  • coconut flipaclip
    coconut flipaclip 4 miesięcy temu +34

    I'll admit it
    I- 🔇🔇🔇🔇🔇.
    🔇🔇🔇🔇🔇
    🔇🔇🔇🔇🔇
    🔇🔇🔇🔇🔇
    🔇🔇🔇🔇 all day & eat

    • Sunem Arreola
      Sunem Arreola Miesiąc temu +3

      I thought my audio went kaput on my end!

  • Jeanne Ann 啊音
    Jeanne Ann 啊音 4 miesięcy temu +4

    Honestly, gamer girls are indeed something some guys cannot comprehand the fact that they exist.
    Im not much of a gamer but i remember playing game with my friend during empty period in class and the guys are so so so so so shocked to find girls that plays game.
    Complete with gaping mouths. Im not kidding.

  • Avocado
    Avocado  5 miesięcy temu +6

    The thing that annoys me is that they always pick chicken nuggets to be the "quirky" food. Like, almost everyone likes chicken nuggets. I mean, I dont, but most people do

  • Stick Bug or Ozzie
    Stick Bug or Ozzie 2 lat temu +4521

    The whole “Im not like other girls” phenomenon is low-key kind of sexist...

    • lil sneaky snake
      lil sneaky snake Rok temu

      Its girlist

    • Avery
      Avery Rok temu +1

      Avery A Nice name 👍

    • Ainsley Tobler
      Ainsley Tobler Rok temu +3

      IHateWednesdays they aren’t talking about him they’re talking about girls who say it in general

    • nn
      nn Rok temu +2

      IHateWednesdays um we’re talking about the “not like other girls” phenomenon. girls are calling out how misogynisticit it is. if you guys think something is sexist then point it out. it’s not our jobs. it’s not a double standar

  • viv colette
    viv colette 23 dni temu +1

    to be fair mr conner, the whole not eating at least specifically when youre going out to twerk on guys is an understandable one. sincerely on behalf of all my IBS queens

  • Kawaii Anime Macaron
    Kawaii Anime Macaron 4 miesięcy temu +4

    There was this one guy in my class and I guess he was really out of touch or something? I really liked Minecraft and had a creeper water bottle. I was filling it up and he was like “hey, is that Minecraft on your water bottle?” So I responded with “yes”. He then said “wait, girls know what video games are? I thought they just liked makeup, glitter and dolls. Girls can’t be into computers or anything like that. They shouldn’t be able to turn a computer on. I’m telling the teacher!” I had to wait for the teacher to come and lecture that dude about how not all girls are the stereotypical kind that you see on tv. He apologized and gave me a bunch of gaming strats but I’m still surprised that he didn’t know that lmao

  • frankensteinlives
    frankensteinlives Miesiąc temu

    That meme/hammer joke was absolutely incredible, I legit laughed. Although I realize that saying that makes it seem like I'm not, and you know what I'm putting too much thought into this anyway thanks

  • Kokichi Oma
    Kokichi Oma 2 miesięcy temu

    As a goth, I will happily say that I am indeed like other girls. I like to do my nails, shopping, I like shoes and clothes, I love my hair, I love dolls, and I love makeup.

  • frankie
    frankie 2 lat temu +19490

    She wears short skirts, I wear nuclear radiation proof body suits.

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      my mouth is making actual sounds cause i am laughing so hard thank you for this

    • •Bungee Gum•
      •Bungee Gum• Rok temu

      Vxlkyria 😂

    • frankie
      frankie Rok temu +1

      @•Bungee Gum• I completely agree.

    • •Bungee Gum•
      •Bungee Gum• Rok temu

      Ajax Jo this needs to be a song👏👏👏👏

  • Max the Dog
    Max the Dog 5 miesięcy temu +2

    so glad i grew out of that phase before i graduated high school bc i was miserable. now i can freely love rainbows and star wars at the same time bc theyre not mutually exclusive interests. crazy

  • S c
    S c 5 miesięcy temu +2

    It’s like when a young girl goes out of her way to bash feminism…either she is completely ignorant about the concept (feminism is simply about equality) or she’s been influenced by all the toxic feminism bashing going on by males online. It’s most likely a combo of both, and so her public declarations against feminism serve to let guys know she’s “cool” & not one of those “pushy, manly” feminists. 🤦‍♀️

  • Hannah Lyons
    Hannah Lyons 24 dni temu +1

    it's very difficult to watch this as i was one of these girls in middle school 😭

  • Miles Smith
    Miles Smith 3 miesięcy temu +1

    There's nothing like showing the world how unique you are with a meme.

  • mr.wendigo
    mr.wendigo Rok temu +7795

    I'm not like other girls
    - I do sport (I do a lot of fencing y'all 😍🤺)
    -i have nice dark hair
    -i'm male
    -my name is inigo Montoya
    -you killed my father
    -prepare to die

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      YOURE MY HERO THANK YOU FOR THIS

    • Jacob From All State
      Jacob From All State 3 miesięcy temu

      😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

    • Afrodita A
      Afrodita A 3 miesięcy temu

      Literally laughed out loud 😂😂

    • saritha jagajith
      saritha jagajith 3 miesięcy temu

      Since when did having dark hair makes you masculine? Since when? 👀

    • oddish
      oddish  4 miesięcy temu

      I AM LAUGHING SO HARD RIGHT NOW

  • Jamez the proud
    Jamez the proud 2 miesięcy temu +1

    I'm a proud trans man! (So I'm definitely not like most girls 😂)

  • deniexe
    deniexe 3 miesięcy temu +1

    this makes my brain hurt, i hate those pick me girls with a passion 😭

  • GuacaMolly
    GuacaMolly 3 miesięcy temu +2

    im not like other girls. i…..i like making noises with my mouth in order to express myself. i call it “talking”.🤪💅

  • Alexandria Cumbow
    Alexandria Cumbow 13 dni temu

    ahhhhh internalized misogyny, something women have to fight constantly, especially as a teen

  • yareswonderland
    yareswonderland 2 lat temu +22518

    Y/n isn’t like other girls🙈she puts her her up in a messy bun and wears glasses👀she also got sold to one direction by her abusive mother✌️😳😂

    • 0L1V3R !!
      0L1V3R !!  2 miesięcy temu

      and her crystal blue orbs

    • quinn.e ☽
      quinn.e ☽ 2 miesięcy temu

      @gwynn I say why-en 👀

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      @Marvin Gordon "i'm not like other girls ... i really hate chicken nuggets"

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      @noel ok THAT was too good 👏👏👏👏

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      @Dark Window HOLY BABY JESUS i am laughing so hard at this 😂😂😂 i want to look up wattpad stories and read it like voldemort is the "i'm not like other girls" girl 😂

  • Issa
    Issa 3 miesięcy temu +3

    wow, missed opportunity for “you can post, I can roast”

  • Wuchangs umbrella
    Wuchangs umbrella 3 miesięcy temu +2

    I used to be one lol. Now I’m embracing long skirts. But I don’t want to be seen as a woman, I want to be seen as a person, I feel powerful and confident in skirts, I feel like no one can take that confidence away from me when I wear them, but being seen as and treated like a woman or a lady still doesn’t feel right for me

  • Dara Boyd
    Dara Boyd 22 dni temu +1

    I also think it's great to celebrate what makes you, you- trendy or not. I think a lot of these girls who say these things fail to realize that people go through phases in their lives.
    It also doesn't make you a complex or more intelligent person to vehemently hate any and all things trendy. I feel like these girls who think that, see the world as a me vs. them and anyone (eveyone) else is vapid and "sheeple". And that is such a tragic, one dimensional way of thinking because they are reslly missing out on the beauty of others.

  • Em
    Em 4 miesięcy temu +2

    I'm very late to this, but I wanted to say I appreciate your view on women and people in general. You make me laugh and have good words. You're a real cowboy breh

  • ChaosEnsues
    ChaosEnsues 2 lat temu +12327

    I’m not like most girls
    I have
    *_hemorrhoids_*

    • fungus_gnat
      fungus_gnat 3 miesięcy temu

      ok that was good 👏👏💯

    • ilayda k
      ilayda k Rok temu

      soukoku soukoku soukoku

    • J
      J Rok temu

      As a volleyball player... My whole team and I get hemmeriods 😱🥵🥴🥴🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧

    • peachy peach
      peachy peach Rok temu

      Nellie Collier omg I’m dead 💀 😵

    • Squidgaymer
      Squidgaymer Rok temu

      WOW HAHA IVE NEVER SEEN A GIRL HAVE THAT

  • Viper V
    Viper V 2 miesięcy temu

    When I was younger, I used to say I wasn't like the girls in my class.... and looking back, i was right. I wasn't like them in looks or interests. I even talked differently. We simply did not have much in common.... I have no message to send in this statement besides that some people actually are not like other people in their small circle. That's okay to think and feel and long as you know that your experiences are not the world.

  • Pixel Pix
    Pixel Pix 3 miesięcy temu +1

    I’m not like most girls I watch so much crime shows I know where and how to hide a body and what to do when caught 🤫

  • Worst Kiter Chan
    Worst Kiter Chan 2 miesięcy temu +1

    This whole NLoGs thing can be twisted I believe. Let's just change it from ,,Other girls vs me" To ,,the construct patriarchy created for us that pressures us to be inhuman vs us, actual alive human beings that support and protect each other" Srsly, the internalized misogyny screams with nlogs and i say that as someone who had a MASSIVE nlog phase

  • Tobye Wolfe
    Tobye Wolfe 6 miesięcy temu +2

    I love at 13:38 that it's just so niche. I think what a person wants (any person) is to feel safe. The 00's and '10s were so focused on driving safety (rightly so) and any person would want a safe vehicle that's also moderately fashionable. The "not like other girls" phenomenon is so dangerous to outcasts as a whole, and the only thing is being nice and not "nice" (being where you just do that for praise and there's no genuineness whatsoever).

  • Jackie Daytona
    Jackie Daytona Miesiąc temu

    I don't know why Kurtis' crying voice freaking kills me, but I'm so grateful for it.

  • Tristan Tries
    Tristan Tries 4 miesięcy temu +2

    I was late to my wedding but it's cause my hair wasn't working out and I only had like an hour of sleep and I had set the wedding venue up before and I was just stressed out and started crying and then had to fix my make up. I promise I had a good time after that

  • amy
    amy 2 miesięcy temu +3

    i’m not like the other girls, i’m
    -sexy
    -smart
    -a graduate of julliard

  • Pa5an1
    Pa5an1 3 miesięcy temu

    Okay, confession time: I guess I used to be one of those girls when I was younger. I was the outsider at school cause I was shy and awkward, I’ve never been too feminine and I guess I just wanted to feel like I was still valid, even if it was in that weird way.
    Fast forward to college, on the first days girl approaches me. And GASP! She wears feminine clothes! And makeup! And has a boyfriend! And likes to party! So my initial reaction was “ugh not one of tHoSe”.
    Well… we became best friends even though we were so different. We got each other through college, lived together at some point and now we’ve been friends for almost 15 years (oh shit I’m old).
    So what I learned is that those “other girls” actually have their unique personalities, hobbies and skills (shocking, I know), that it’s cool to express yourself with fashion and makeup (I still don’t but I admire people who are good with makeup).
    We’re all just people in the end. Maybe take some time to get to know them.

  • Mallosteric
    Mallosteric 11 miesięcy temu +4214

    "I'm not like most girls"
    can't relate, I'm a combination of every girl I ever thought was cool

    • wxbrainiac
      wxbrainiac 6 miesięcy temu

      Saying no two girls are wrong is just physically impposible

    • avery
      avery 7 miesięcy temu

      @clung bungo bro this comment was scarcely accurate 💀

    • Kady Virgil
      Kady Virgil 7 miesięcy temu

      YOOOOOOOOOO this is so true

    • Haley Harris
      Haley Harris 7 miesięcy temu

      @NotReallyACartoon so many people in general are EXTREMELY similar

  • Me
    Me 6 miesięcy temu +3

    I’m not like other girls, *I’m an agent of chaos...*
    *I’m a society*

  • i'm a dumpster fire
    i'm a dumpster fire 4 miesięcy temu

    I went more into this and I found fanart of these girls and the "other girls" and they're like best friends or dating and it's so cute

  • ɪᴍ sᴄᴀʀᴇᴅ ᴏғ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ

    when I was younger I had a friend who would say, “I’m not like other girls, I’m not a girl at all, I’m an alien!”

  • The Stranger on The Internet
    The Stranger on The Internet 6 miesięcy temu +1

    This phenomenon has been around before the age of social media.

  • Piano Relaxing
    Piano Relaxing 2 lat temu +18837

    girl: I’m not like other girls
    other girls: same

    • frog soap
      frog soap 8 miesięcy temu

      I'm not like quirky girls 🤤😜😝

    • The guy that asked
      The guy that asked 8 miesięcy temu

      It’s the constant battle not to be a cog in the machine. So few people enjoy conforming to that, causing the stereotype to slowly become the minority group. Eventually this whole thing will reverse and we’ll see posts like “I’m not like other girls, I cause drama.” The harder you try to be different, the less unique you really are.

    • peachy peach
      peachy peach Rok temu

      Lmao

    • scrubbywubby
      scrubbywubby Rok temu

      i am like other girls! but i don’t think i could ever watch murder stories/documentaries they’re boring as fuck. i’d rather be reading fanfics or watching mcyt lmao

  • Isabel Amelco
    Isabel Amelco Miesiąc temu

    I know it was a skit but the part where he said “I spent my whole paycheck on this, like just for you, cus I really like you a lot.” Hurt me so badly😭 my heart broke

  • Afrodita A
    Afrodita A 3 miesięcy temu

    Your acknowledgment of your privileges is so respectful. Amazing, stand up guy :)

  • ✧  the ALMIGHTY owlKitto ✧
    ✧ the ALMIGHTY owlKitto ✧ 4 miesięcy temu +4

    Im not like other girls:
    My first crush wasn't a celebrity!.
    *My first crush was a yellow triangle with a top hat and bow tie on!*

  • Pretty Guardian
    Pretty Guardian 6 miesięcy temu +3

    I know Kurtis is just joking, and I love his comedy, and also I just wanted to say that the girl playing Skyrim meme isn't so outlandish to me. As a woman who likes to game, I can tell you that guys say the absolute wildest things about us.

  • Bea
    Bea Rok temu +8197

    I’m not like other girls, I died of the consumption at age 12 and I now haunt my papá’s tavern and hope to one day be on Buzzfeed Unsolved.
    I’m an Elizabethan ghost.

    • Lia
      Lia 25 dni temu

      Sur, I got news.. alotta 12 girls died of consumption

    • Fentastic Fen
      Fentastic Fen Miesiąc temu +1

      @Furbys_Prey_On _Transphobes I wanted to say that 😡

    • Babyy Demon
      Babyy Demon 2 miesięcy temu +1

      ^this.
      Goals

    • Diya Bhatt
      Diya Bhatt 2 miesięcy temu +2

      Plot twist : she isn't joking and really is a ghost

  • Erebos
    Erebos 4 miesięcy temu +3

    Some nights if I dont find anything funny I just watch an old random video of Kurtis, it never dissapoints.

  • The Morrigan
    The Morrigan 6 miesięcy temu +2

    Here's something that might shock these "not like other girls" girls. Most of these things are things that girls like me, who like nice dinners, make up and grew up watching Disney also like. I like nice restaurants and I also like a good bar. I like make-up and jewelry, but I also like to be comfortable in a hoodie. I like Disney and I also like Crime Dramas. You aren't unique for wanting to go to Denny's, or not wearing make-up or playing video games. Other girls like that stuff too. Just because we enjoy things you don't doesn't mean we aren't also unique. Everyone is unique in their own way, but liking to eat chicken nuggets and wear comfort clothes isn't what makes you unique because a lot of people do that.

  • Jahleah Santiago
    Jahleah Santiago 6 miesięcy temu +1

    Yeah I was weird when it was still considered appalling lmao not being befriended and having eccentric interests was actually difficult and sucked. I’ve had the same friends my entire life - now it’s all aesthetic 💀

  • Lula259
    Lula259 5 miesięcy temu +4

    I love the memes of the "not the other girls" that are like "other girls: makeup, girly, dressed, pink/me: sovietic tank"
    It's so stupid now that its written down but if you ever stumble upon one of them mocking the not like the other girls you will realize it lmao