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Are Men Really Trash?
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- Opublikowany 17 paź 2019
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I've seen so many tweets and memes lately about men being "trash", so I figured I would make a video to see if we could finally get to the bottom of this whole thing. Come along as we take a look at some prime examples of guys being the absolute worst, and we'll see if there is any hope for dudes out there.
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"Not all men"
Your right, Bob Ross would never treat me like this
he is suspected to have had an affair with one of his managers :/
I mean... yeah, sure ig, you're not wrong.
True Bob Ross was a great father and probably husband at that good good man.
*you're
*you’re :D
“Not all men”
you’re right… Flynn Rider would never treat me like this.
@Billy De Vries trueee
Flynn would, Eugene wouldn't
YES
YES DADDY FYLNN
I was the 1000th like. Ik no one cares idk why im saying this
"Not all men"
Exactly, Rick Astley would never give me up, let me down, turn around and desert me like other men
I hate that I heard the song in my head as I read this comment.
He’ll also stay with you together forever
@Lady Blake girl yes
Does- does this count as getting rickrolled
“Not all men”
You’re right, Doofenshmirtz would never.
wait why are you actually kind of right though here hold on
He’s a real one 🥺🥺🫰🤞🤞🤞🤞
@Claire Overdorf I'm glad I'm not the only one who actually laughed out loud 😂
no you fucking didnt. im dead
@1LooneyLlama and that is exactly why we stan him
"Not all men"
True. Kurtis would never.
@Samantha Yes.
@Samantha Yes.
@Samantha yes
@Samantha yes.
@Samantha Yes.
i can’t fathom the fact that when a girl says “no” a guy takes that as “keep trying”
It's obviously just them playing hard to get 🙄
@Somedude Ok Generalizations are apart of life.
i mean, i think it’s cause men are like “oH tHeYrE pLaYiNg hArD tO gEt” but like- just stop-
@JJMe Disneycool 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
“Not all men”
You’re right, Gomez Addams would never
aghhhhh TRUTHHH
in love w gomez addams
Like yeah
all the other comments in this format are funny but this one? this one is true. this one is factual
OMG this needs more likes like Frfr
"Not all men"
You're right, Tadashi Hamada from Big Hero 6 would never disrespect me
🔥
Fair point. Mostly because he’s dead.
he probably would
you open up a scar
@Rei Rabitt Daaaang
The fact that I went back and watched this video after being offended by it a year ago and being fine with it now shows maturity. And I'm proud :).
@Wolfskull Wardagger get over it
Yessirrrrr
@bubuhwubby I think I understand what you're saying now. I still don't understand the sentiment in itself , but I do understand what you're talking about. I still think that just because you're hurt, doesn't give you permission to hurt others. but if it's keeping you safe and you aren't actively treating men like trash, then go on.
i'm just really sensitive, and seeing these people say stuff like "all men are trash" and we should die makes me feel so horrible. i already suffer with depression and anxiety and all these comments make it worse. it makes me feel like i shouldn't exist
@HopeIsADrug Hey! im transmasc too, I completely understand your hesitance with the KAM and All Men Are Trash movements, I was in your situation before my SA too.
The difference between your example of hating women because a woman cheated is that mens assault on women has a pattern of being fatal or leaving permanent scars (physical and emotional), yes, being cheated on is awful and I don't wish it on anyone, but being in a situation of sexual harassment or assault (even sometimes online cases of stalkers! online stalking and sexual assault can end in just as serious situations) you never know if its going to be your last moments. and that fear of "is he going to kill me?" can be hard to shake, even long after the actual assault.
The "kill all men" movements and "all men are trash" statements sound harsh, until you realize that women are the ones being killed on the street. Women who say "Kill all men" aren't actually going out and killing people, we're just victims of extreme trauma.
It may not be every single man, there are lots of good people! You seem like a perfectly fine person yourself, but all it takes is ONE man, especially when put in a law system and social structure that is known for downplaying and not helping women in these situations. there are so many cases of r(A)pe and M(u)rde(R) that could have been solved, had the people in charge cared enough.
I agree, it can sound harsh, but take into account that the women who say these things are the actual people being discriminated, hurt, bullied and killed in these situations. We dont want to make anyone feel bad, but being weary of men and teaching other people to be weary of men has saved lives.
I apologize for the long texts.
"not all men"
You're right, Nick Wilde would never treat me like this
ur right he would treat us worse
PLS
He do be kinda suss tho
If more men were like Kurtis, the world would be a much better place
I literally had the same conversation in the thumbnail with over 20 people when dating. Is it fair to say that this is why women have trust issues with men. Im not being unfair to be unfair this is reality.
@Your Arch Nemesis misandry isn’t real 😭
@Kaodi How is he cynical. Give an example right now.
@Simon yeah cause believe it or not, we like men who show us ✨decent respect✨
@Beluga shes probably a discord mod kitten lets just go and watch some more beluga videos fellow fan
"Not all men"
You're right, Prince Naveen will never treat me like this. 💚
..... his character arch is literally going from a selfish entitled playboy into a decent human being... I think this is the first time on one of these where the guy would indeed treat you like that
Weeeeeeell are we talking pre or post movie
True plus he knows Louie the Gator and we all simps for Louie 👌
He is the best prince!
i think i should watch the princess and the frog again just for him 😋💔
Man the world can be pretty annoying and confusing sometimes. It's really annoying that everyone, regardless of gender, sexuality, race etc., can't just respect each other equally, but some people just do awful, awful sh*t and it really makes it hard for everyone to truly be equal. The statistics just make the whole situation much, much worse.
I'm a 15 year old, white, hetero guy, which means I haven't had to face any oppression unlike other people from other groups - and I see Kurtis as a role model - he shows real respect to women, LGBTQ+ and other often oppressed groups. Watching his videos has made me research the history of this oppression of other groups and try to understand the issues they have faced and still face today. Makes me very proud to be a citizen of Kurtistown with the greatest mayor :)
i wish there were more ppl like you dude. never change, you’re doing great
wish all straight white guys were like this even if it is the bare minimum but thanks for not being a shitty person
Proud of you my man
We are happy to have you as a member of kurtistown
“not all men”
you’re right, george weasley would never treat me like this 😩🤚
YOURE SO RIGHT
"not all men"
I know Elmo would never disrespect me.
@Marlie jones Does anyone else hear sirens?
@Marlie jones what if i was also 4 years old
Well he’s also four years old
imagine having masculinity that isnt toxic, kurtis can relate
@Hemanth Swarna It is a thing. What concept tells men to suppress their emotions…toxic masculinity.
@Jimmy Hostetler “sensitive” cause we’re talking about how women have been socially disadvantaged?
"Not all men"
You're right Spencer Reid would never treat me like this
@lia Seriously, I tried to watch the further stuff but it lost it's pizzaz. Like, there was some element he brought that couldn't be replaced with other characters and all that. It sucked as they replaced the original cast, but they replaced them with characters that eventually took up a role of their own, balanced out the team, brought something to the table, good solid stuff, but he felt a little like the glue of the team to some degree, cause as soon as he wasn't in the main cast, it just felt super hollow. Like going through the motions but no real power behind it.
It wasn't just his role as like trivia nerd or anything, there was just something he brought that really balanced out the team and show that I feel like they couldn't really replace.
My own thoughts at least. The whole arc around him no longer being in the main team or whatever is majorly like, it's a lot, especially when you're a big fan of his. Like, it's nice to see his arcs more in the limelight, definitely, but it's, there's a lot of emotions going on, imo. It's a whole ass rollercoaster. I mean, the arc isn't bad, but it's, gah, it's just sad when it's over and things don't just sorta return to normal, ya know?
@Kira Lonely that’s so sad :(((
@lia The character was written out of the main cast at least, I won't explain why as it's all story building stuff, but they set him to not be able to work in the force again, at least not in police based stuff, and it makes me so sad to even admit that. :(
However, I will argue that your comment makes me want to just pretend he never left and the show ended before that story arc tbh, haha.
@Kira Lonely wait he-he left 😀⁉️
This comment makes my heart so happy. The show got so boring imo without him. :(
"not all men"
you're right. bibble from barbie fairytopia would never disrespect me
YESS WE STAN BIBBLE! ❤
@veecatsu DAMN 😭😂
@YaeKaeyaXiaoEnjoyer YES
Wait Bibble was male ? 😭😭
BIBBLE LMFAOO
“Not all men”
Yes Kim Namjoon would never treat me like this
YES I FOUND THE BEST ONE
Agree
so true
CORRECT 😌😌
This is Hobi erasure
"Not all men"
_Yes, Tanjiro will never treat me like that_
@Tadashi Yamaguchi Too soon, six years too soon.
yes I love Tanjiro
Yes!!! Tanjiro!
@Tadashi Yamaguchi AYO- 💀💀💀✋✋ HDJDJEORKDK
@Niningguang Kamado Plate, no wonder why the kamado family became a snack
these men really think they're the greatest gift to women, when it is in fact that extra greeting
@PennyW222 I read your reply as "ew a lesbian" and was about to go off LMAO
@Mr. Ok It dosen't matter if you commented this 2 years ago.It's a comment section people will see your comment and reply to you
@Park Jimin bro I said something about two years ago ,wtf you on about? I literally don't remember what we are debating here
"Not all men"
You're right, the Pringles mascot would never treat me like this
“Not all men” Bill wurtz would never treat me like this
@Elijah Young the sun is a deadly laser
Maybe I could eat blades of grass!
I love his music
Nice reference 😉 haven't seen anyone mention him in a loooong time
4:38-4:43
Can we just appreciate the fact that Kurtis drove to a baseball diamond, set up a camera in two separate locations and proceeded to film a bit that lasted less than 5 seconds?
This is why we love him.
“Not all Men”
Yes, Indoor boyfriend would never
Kinda sad how if a woman said what he's saying in this video the hate she'd get would be much worse and also sexualized
You make such a good point thank you for pointing this out.
@colorbar.s I mean now we have Chad Chad and she’s pretty funny
@colorbar.s yeah most of the women commentary is white girls and there just not funny or entertaining for some reason but there’s really funny girls and entertaining girls out there it’s just a lot of the white girls commintary just always talks about social issues but in a super serious and heated way so it just is to much i out race into everything but I feel like this is very true
"Not all men"
You are right. Harry Styles would never.
YESSS
"Not all men"
Your right, Camilo Madrigal would never do me like that.
He's an animation but yessssss 😂😂
Just imagine, somehow, one of these guys starts a family. His daughter is going through a relationship with a bad boyfriend and she comes to him about it but instead of helping her confront the problem he just says "well, not ALL men are trash"
@Eddie Taliaferro what…
How many MORE Men would sit down with their daughter and support her? Hmm. I guess it depends on which narrative you choose to indulge in.
“Not all men”
You’re right, Kaido (Saiki K.) would never 😔
he would protect us from toritsuka
I'm glad to see the anime Saiki kuoso is getting the recommendation it deserves!
Yare,yare
this is kurtis.
kurtis doesn't disrespect women.
be like kurtis.
@Andai Ibori isn't that illegal?
@Jahnavi Raman I don't think they ever said that at any point. I think it's totally fair to want people to be respectful to both genders. In an ideal world people would be respectful to both genders without feeling the need to put each other down.
Because he is one
“Not every man” you’re right, Stanford pines would NEVER disrespect me
You’re so right, Soos, the perfect man, would absolutely never do this to me.
@CarsonBDot Nah, Stanley's the one who would do that. Stanford was stuck in a dimensional portal for years.
Agreed, but he’d probably sell everything you own and say it’s a tourist attraction
"But not all men-" you're absolutely right, Andrew Garfield would never
Someone needs to start a counter for how many times Kurtis says *'Dude'*
Isn't it interesting how there are so many "Not all men. True, (this man) would never treat me like this" but most of the men that are mentioned are not real, like they're from tv shows, movies, books, or are actors playing a character. Barely any real men are included in these jokes and it's hinting at a very sad reality. I read so many funny ones and then there was an "oh" moment.
@Eddie Taliaferro Being a father doesn't instantly make you a good person and you obviously don't get the meme.
There’s men who are fathers who work hard every single day. Honor those men instead of fucking actors
@just rusty why is that?
@TonyIs NotDead You’re a very optimistic person
Most men aren't bad
If I had a dollar for everytime Kurtis said “dude” I’d have enough money to buy a car that makes me paninis.
That'd be frickin' sigg dude 🤘
I think I'm even worse. Chalk it up to being younger-than-a-boomer in America. I do enjoy the versatility of the word. Dude isn't gendered, it can work for any male/female/non binary person. I can use it on anyone from my dad to my dogs! It's kinda the best... Altho only Jeffery Lebowski could ever be THE DUDE. He's the essence of 'dude'. 🌈🤟❤
@Kylie Gordon Man I wish I were at Ed too
@Kylie Gordon I’m sorry, but you’re missing an r
Why did I read "paninis" as a "peninis"
as a man, why are men like this? When I was a girl men would like me & then as soon as I say no they either keep trying or pull a "f u i never liked u anyways"??????
I'm trans
ok but at least they dont see you as a girl anymore and dont use u because of weird fetishes so ig theres a win in the bad situation?
fr ill never understand
This is why Kurtis is my favorite youtuber. He’s so understanding about these subjects and he isn’t afraid to put this out there. He’s teaching people to not be like the people he makes videos about and I really appreciate that about him
“Not all men.”
You’re 100% right, Charlie Swan would NEVER treat me like that 😤
"Not all men"
You're right, that one extra in the backround of that one movie I forgot the name of would never treat me like this
"Not all men"
You're so right Kurtis Conner would never do this
@nightowl aww cry about it
@nightowl I guess women should go in the men's room since man refers to everyone.
I also get offended when, people generalise women as gold diggers and crazy and same goes for men too.
@Jukajobs you tell them!
“Not all men”
You’re right, anime men could never.
It’s. A fictional character :/
"Not all men"
That's right, Hiccup from How to Train Your Dragon would never.
"Not all men"
You're right. Jake from state farm would NEVER
"Not all men"
You're right, Danny DeVito would never act like this
nobody:
men: *are trash*
kurtis: dewd
Congrats on 5.3k likes you are welcome 🤗
Haven't even watched the video and I already know
Nobody:
Nobody:
Nobody:
Nobody: 😅😭💯
It’s the Canadian accent baby ✌🏻😌 🇨🇦 🇨🇦
“Not all men”
You’re right, Drew would never.
"Not all men"
You're right, Marshall Lee from Adventure Time would never
Yesss finally a Marshall Lee one
"Not all men"
You're right, Kurtis would never. :)
"not all men"
You're so right, my boy Megamind would never treat me like this
kurtis out here teaching more about consent than the whole public school system.
c a s a b l a n c a s that’s why I mean I learnt abt consent wen I was like 6 cus if I asked me mum for something she’d say no, and she told me that no means no that is consent but tbh I don’t understand why ppl arguing I think wat I’m saying is pretty normal
Chad Niggle bruh how sorry that I respect women simple stuff, how do I sound six
@Elstonn Gunn you type like u 6
"Not all men"
Yeah, Danny phantom would NEVER
"Not all men"
You're right, Frank from Subway Surfers would never treat me like this
Not all men but enough men have acted like this to make it one of the major problems in our society.
“Not all men”
You’re right, fictional comfort characters would NEVER
kurtis has an IV drip of respect women juice on his arm at all times
Yes my brother or sister we shall bring men and women together and get rid of all the misogyny and misandry together we shall shame asshole not because their gender, but because their bad people.
Finally glad I found a person with my logic. Shout out to you. 😊
Respect human juice will be better.
"Not all men"
Correct, Percy Jackson would never treat me this way
You’re absolutely correct
"Not all men"
You're right Sebastian Stan and Tom hiddleston would NEVER
"not all men"
That's true, Leonardo DaVinci would never
Hes my favourite actor 😍
as a guy yes i do feel bad when we get hate but most of it is true
“Not all men” yes. Jeremy from Phineas and Ferb would never treat me like this.
nah ferb respects women
@erin marie then beg
i beg to differ
Jeremy.. BALJEET WOULD NEVERRRR
Candace was a simp tho, jeremy was a king
Okay, but when guys get offended when you pre-emptively say "I have a bf" and then say something along the lines of you being a wh*re because you /don't/ cheat on your bf
I literally had the same conversation in the thumbnail with over 20 people when dating. Is it fair to say that this is why women have trust issues with men. Im not being unfair to be unfair this is reality
“Not all men”
You’re right, *insert male celeb or character here* would never.
'Not all men"
You're right, Sportacus would never treat me like this
"Not all men"
You're right, My Boyfriend would never treat me like this.
@maya papaya OH NOOOOOOOO
“Not all men.”
You’re right, Harry Styles would never do any of those things
“not all men”
you’re right cat noir would never do this
It’s sick because as a woman even when I was only 15 I’d deal with this almost everyday. I was even offered money for sex at 15 as if I was an object (I said no)
I know sexuality isn't a choice because somehow I'm still straight
So,Loopy Momy why did you remove your reply?
“not all men”
you’re right, all of one direction and 5sos would never treat me like this
In 8th grade, a guy texted me to say he liked me. He then told me his soccer coaches sent it. It’s only just now occurring to me that he might have been lying.
"not all men" you're right... Troy Bolton would never
“Not all men”
You’re right.. Terry Crew and Felix Madrigal would never!
"Not all men" you're right, my imaginary boyfriend would NEVER treat me like this
SAME
My Baby Yoda stuffie is the best at cuddling!
"Stawp it. Touch some grass. Dont do druuuuuugs"
@E 🤣😂😂😂
@E Tysm you too
"Not all men"
You're right Danny and Drew would never
"Not all men"
You're right, Big McIntosh from MLP would *never*
“Not all men”
Your right Ed Sheeran wouldn’t never treat me like this.
😐
"My bad habits lead to late nights"
"I'm inlove with the shape of you"
👨🦰🤛‼️
no offense but....💀💀💀
oh Lord 💀
A guy and I were talking for two weeks trying to meet up. Finally found a time and I was getting ready. He asked if I wanted too fool around after, I said I would like to know him better and he unmatched me. Took my friend out to lunch instead.
Kurtis didn’t just drink respecting women juice, he INVENTED it.
@Mike T beta and alpha males aren’t a real thing....
@Mike T Way to out yourself as the type of guy we're making fun of... lol@howmuchdoyouevenliftbro? Good luck with drinking away the lonely feels
@Mike T wait wait wait beta? you one of those dudes who believe in alphas and stuff cause if so I'd hate to burst your bubble dude
I-
@isa OOP
Kurt's showing love for Brennan Fraser made my little heart melt
How dare you, it’s BRENDAN
"not all men"
Yeah, you're right. Albedo from Genshin Impact would never treat me like this.
“not all men”
youre right, markiplier would never
THIS
I'm convinced that the men who perceive women like objects to be chased, without acknowledging the fully fleshed-out person underneath, do so because they themselves aren't fully fleshed-out. The only way I can imagine being able to think another person's purpose is to give you sex, is if you define your own life and purpose by your ability to get sex. When your own world is narrow, everything around you seems that way, too.
Interesting point! I'd agree were it not for countless historical figures (e.g. artists) who were sophisticated thinkers, valued philosophy etc, but didn't see women as more than objects of desire or as servants..
Those men you mentioned are correct, women aren;t sentient, the fact that you think so is mind-boggling.
“Not all men”
You’re right donkey from shrek would never 👎🏽
I know this is an old video but I just wanted to say that I actually watch this channel because it's an example of a man that, as far as I can tell, is the farthest thing from trash. Thanks for helping me not hate all men all the time, Kurtis!
this is how I behaved when I was like 14, and I still look back in horror 16 years later. wish I could apologize.
the text that kept saying sorry and begging that js.
"Not all men."
Sure, but if a dog bites you, you're allowed to distrust all dogs.
"Not all men"
Yes. Shaggy would never.
Which Shaggy
@kkachanno frog mammon is the best mammon
@Sof H oh thank god im not the only one lmao
'honey came in and she caught me red handed' shaggy??
mammon
There's a difference between a "man" and "some guy." Kurtis is the latter.
Men aren’t trash, those men are
Honestly people in general seem to be pretty trash these days.
I love Kurtis so much!!! We love a feminist king!!!
“Not all men”
Mr. Clean would NEVER do me dirty
THIS IS THE BEST ONE
Lmao i read this comment, thought it was funny, And 5 minutes later it hit me.
This is genius
YES.
good pun, bro
O
"Not all men"
Yes, Naruto would never treat anyone like that😀
The fart sketch is literally the best you have ever done. Comedic gold.
Dads to their teen daughter: No dating until you're 21.
Daughter: Why not?
Dads: Because young men are disgusting.
Daughter: Some aren't.
Dads: ALL OF THEM ARE DISGUSTING!
Daughter: So all men are bad?
Dad: Yes.
Daughter: ALL men?
Dads: Well..... hold on a minute... not all men.
Daughter: So not all men? So I can date the good ones?
Dads: No, better not take the risk.
Daughter: So I should assume all men are bad?
Dads: Yes, better to be safe.
Daughter: All men are bad.
Dads: Wait.... no!
Not this making me feel comfort, validation and reminding me of my standards💀
Some men: women are such goldiggers
Also those men: *flex all their money openly to get a girl*
Honestly gold diggers are bad and ingenuine and guys who show off their money are douch bags
@I. Andueza i was kinda thinking that but women don’t always wear nice clothes only to attract men so :/
I always don't like when people generalise women as gold digger or crazy or stupid. Same goes for men too, i think we should not generalise any gender at all.
Yo, as much as I love this vid, men can be trash in the most every day, seemingly regular, situations and/or conversations. That's it. Being a woman and the dangers associated with that are rarely explicit like this.