These Are the Worst Guys on TikTok w/ Drew Afualo

@Yami Yugi u ruined it haha. The comment was a joke empowering women from these weird misogynistic comments. Why do men think everything is about them. Why do insert themselves into everything. In general, why do men?🤦‍♀️

This comment section is full of dark magic that I'm not supposed to see lol

Sounds like some shit a stand in JoJo would be based off of

Is that the cause for your DEBT

I THOUGHT WE WERE SUPPOSED TO KEEP THE MOON THING A SECRET

He is Jack denmo and he has a youtube channel he gets lots of women

a baby with an hourglass figure is a new fear of mine now

@D R A no, there is always gonna be someone who has a specific body type naturally. it' just may not be as exaggerated or common so it can be hard to believe.

@Red bean love that for them /j

@Red bean this should really be a comment by itself PLS

@Red bean HAHAHHAHAHA

Yeah bro that's so feminine behavior 😨😨😨

Walt Whitman feminine king, so feminine he likes men.

I hate paragraphs I guess I’m masculine

Yas queen

Most of the male poets and writers back in the day were secretly gay or messed around with men so yeah they are lol

@Fairytale Funeral Shakespeare did write everything in poetic verse, he only wrote in prose during certain times of certain plays, mostly when commoners were speaking

Yeah, like literally that guy said that gravity doesn't exist for women. Having the knowledge of asexuality was not something I expected from him.

@Guy Incognito idk when I heard about it. But surely as an adult you’d know. Idk though

​@5ashll When my bros asked me for my sexual orientation, every one of them have never heard of asexuality nor aromanticism before. However I haven't been asked for about a year, so maybe they have been getting recognition and I just didn't know.

Really? It doesn’t seem like such a foreign concept.

Yess

Logan - I appreciate what you're saying where you are suggesting that by " to work out" these morons mean " to work out to look aesthetic ", but honestly, that's being too kind. Given the rest of their content, i do not think they're being as intellectual as to let their viewers draw conclusions to working out for social aesthetics for sexes. I think they just mean - working out. Just that - not because of anything else.
Also, their assumption that women only work out for aesthetics and not because they want to be fit is... 🤦🏻‍♀️. Sure, some do , and some are misled by wrong information, but as a whole group? Arrogant assumption ( although, from them - utterly unsurprising.)

@Logan Gantner first thing; I appreciate you maintaining a respectful conversation bc that's hard to find on the internet these days lol
I think shaming anyone for choosing to skip or not skip or say one thing is easier than the other is just pointless from my perspective since people's bodies/hormone levels/metabolisms all function VERY differently.
I appreciate the other perspective on the weight lifting area, it's helpful to look back and remember the shame that leaner men often receive from the weightlifting area.
While I agree diet honestly is the most convenient, consistent, and often easier way for most people to lose weight, there are some barriers here that are at play. I work in community mental health specifically with clients on govt insurance and govt benefits that don't have a penny extra to pinch and are also usually on mental health medications.
The reason I mention these two factors specially is bc many, many mental health meds can make you gain weight very rapidly and make it very difficult to take it off. Birth control also very commonly does this to women bc it essentially makes your body function as though it were pregnant. I've experienced it myself and as someone who had a naturally very fast metabolism beforehand, it was extremely jarring just how quickly the the weight came on and how hard it was to lose after that. I lost weight when I changed meds bc I, in a way, was fortunate that the ones I was taking with a side effect of weight gain (SSRI's), didn't work for me and I had to use a med that targeted a different neurotransmitter and actually had weight LOSS as a side effect. I have many clients who gained weight from meds and feel discouraged and confused and don't know how to manage it (lack of resources, health education, education on how to do thorough research, lack of motivation from mental illness, etc). My job location specifically is actually trying to address this concern by offering mental health informed fitness counselors for clients! Its a very good thing, and also shows just how big the need is for something like this. sorry that was lengthy, I just wanted to offer as much as info as I could from personal experience since I had some here for sure.
The other part I mentioned though was their reliance on govt benefits. Many of my clients come from backgrounds where they really received nothing informational from their upbringing. They don't know how to cook, clean, manage money, hold a job, grocery shop alone, etc) due to coming from either a parent who was also severely ill but undiagnosed, abuse/neglect, or a combo of them all. Therefore, their access to things like healthy meal options, nutritional/fitness education, and adequate medical care play a large role in their ability to control their weight. Women are also more likely to seek mental health care (often with birth control pills, the hormone nightmare), these factors are often relevant to their ability to lose weight via diet and or exercise. Scientifically you are absolutely correct, and diet IS the most efficient objectively. But unfortunately not everyone has access to the same resources and or education and it makes things more murky and complicated if we're trying to discuss barriers or benefits to losing/gaining weight and or muscle.
P.s.Once again, sorry I'm long winded and hope I didn't stray too far into my tangent lol

@Katie C They do mention "guys who skip leg day", but this is a trope in the bodybuilding community. The vast majority of guys who are going to lift weights at the gym are targeting all major muscle groups. "Don't skip leg day" is a phrase gym rats use to make themselves feel superior to a theoretical, top-heavy straw man who values aesthetics over functional strength. It's not common in practice, especially since having huge quads has been very...trendy within these groups lately.
I can commiserate with not feeling comfortable in the heavy weights section of the gym. Hell, I don't feel comfortable in those sections. It's a very toxic environment, and it's not only women that are made to feel that they don't belong. If you are using a high-value piece of equipment (like the only cable row machine in the gym) and you're not a huge bodybuilder, you can sense the resentment of other, bigger guys who want to use the equipment and feel more entitled to it. Being at the gym makes me feel like I'm in the wilderness. But it's too bad because technically, everyone should be doing strength training to failure at least once a week, and most people aren't.
The last thing I will say is, maintaining a low body fat percentage (once you've achieved it) can technically be accomplished through diet alone. As long as you are consuming fewer calories than your metabolism + daily energy consumption, you cannot gain weight. This may not be the healthiest route, but it is certainly possible. Whereas muscles seem to WANT to go away. You cannot maintain them with diet, you HAVE to work at keeping them constantly. I don't mean to harp on comparing the two lifestyles, but my argumentative nature is easy to provoke.

@GG undercover I'm guessing you are a woman based on the context of your statements, but apologies if this is incorrect. You can never expect the same results from the same actions, even if the two people you are comparing are the same sex. You said you maintained the same diet as your cousin. But if he is a man and you are a woman, then his metabolism is much higher than yours, especially as his body starts producing more testosterone. It would be astonishing if you lost weight at the same rate as him. You cannot follow the same diet as a man who is weightlifting. You've got to figure out your own system. I'd also like to point out that the purpose of lifting weights is usually not to lose fat (and certainly not to lose weight), although everyone should still be doing it.
Most likely as a woman, lifting weights will act to tone your muscles, but not so much to build mass. Mainly because the testosterone levels are just not high enough. Of course, you DO occasionally see those huge bodybuilding women, but it's rare that they are 100% natural. And of course, most women (as far as I am aware) don't WANT to put on tons of muscle mass either.

thanks i needed this

Ironically enough it's a reason why many relationships fail. When you get in a serious relationship you're going to face hardships sometime and they can be really heavy for both of the people involved, and when a person bottles up their emotions they replace them with other such as anger or they try to avoid the problem. That doesn't work in the long term and in a healthy reletionship it's damaging not just for the other party but to them themselves. If a woman doesn't want to listen to a guys problems that's a huge red flag and you should leave that reletionship immediately. Nobody is a robot we all have emotions and letting them out isn't feminine or masculine it's natural and healthy.

I mean why is that even a thing. Men women we all are human beings and have emotions. Why is having emotions, the very thing that makes us humans is something to be ashamed of ?

Interacting with _anyone_ who's always supportive and never vulnerable just sounds super uncomfortable, tbh. Like, am I taking advantage of you? Are you just talking to me out of pity? Or are you gathering blackmail material for later? Lol.

@milkenobi good to know in case I ever get a gf.

@Logan Gantner also as a tip, don't say "females" online. because we don't know you, people will think worst of you. not because you are wrong for saying it, but many disgusting men keep saying females in a way which feels degrading and dehumanising, so it's connotation has changed drastically over time. in real life, I'm sur people who know you will know you aren't meaning that when you say females, but online, we don't have that context and tone is also extremely hard to figure out online. hope you have better interactions here for the future

@Logan Gantner PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE educate them. legitimately, educate them. because it's years of misinformation of people telling them lies and they don't want to be swole, they just want to be attractive and feel fit and great. it's gonna take a while before we can break this misinformation but keep trying my friend.

@Dear Bangtan I'm sorry, I have no right to give my opinion? So the only people who have a right to an opinion are the people who happen to agree with you or the mood of the room? That's some questionable shit, my man.
Sorry I said "females", I wasn't aware that this was now considered degrading. I also oftentimes use "males" top describe men, but whatever.
I started going back to the gym again this week. Place was packed. Benches were full up with dudes. Heavy dumbells were full up with dudes. Pulldowns and rows were full up with dudes. The squats racks were...a mix of men and women. The cardio machines were...a mix of men and women. Are you really going to tell me that there is no trend here?

@Jude D Yes. Setting expectations for anyone is perfectly fine. The issues arise when your expectations are unrealistic, bigoted in some ways or contradict your expectations of yourself.
A woman that isn't pretty, has a bad personality and is a bum can have very high expectations for her dream guy, but these expectations are hypocritical.
There are men that find women having body hair, slightly saggy or uneven boobs, hip dips, peeing, shitting, menstruating, farting, etc. very disgusting and mock women for it. They are free to hold whatever expectations they please, but this is rather unrealistic.

Absolutely

Scary but far from uncommon unfortunately

I am socially awkward and not really smart but Gosh, i guess misery loves the company in their case

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Sleepy Ciderr oooooooooooo

Right? I was like: ok first of all shocked these dudes know about ace…except they kind of don’t know what the word means exactly? but also they seem to actually acknowledge it’s real?
I have never felt so….uncomfy about someone acknowledging aspec as a real thing.

@Sleepy Ciderr o o ooo o.
s es i .comfortable i’m

I know right? Like how can he mention aces (albeit in a fucked up and incorrect way) but also say that being LGBTQ made a woman unattraictve? Why mention us at all? He can "include" aces but obviously has a terrible and outdated view on women..I genuinely don't understand men like this LOL.
From one proud ace to another, I hope for more (proper) representation in the years to come

She figured out our secret! We must abort the mission!

hush. dont give the robots ideas

A wise choice.

I dont know if this is the same guy who said women only like cats and the bachelor (that’s why they suck) and I, as a woman who sucks, enjoy those things!

@Alora Hartigan Girl: I just want you to give me attention and stay loyal
Guy: interesting reaction, but what does it mean?

They talk about women like we are an alien species they have “studied”. It’s serial killer sounding shit

Probably because his only interaction with girls was in mid/high school with actually confused girls just like confused boys, because they're stupid teenagers.
He's literally talking to confused boys as a confused boy himself, that's his whole show sadly.

They talk about us like we're all just clones and we all like the same things

I've never been attracted to an overly muscular guy in my life. I like slender builds. Men who are somehow simultaneously geeky and hot.

“Dorito shaped” 😂

@Ax Honestly, good for you. You’re not missing out on much 😵

@ANG3L nah your woman card is good. Skinny guys with no muscles that wear makeup are 🥵

@N MNSC
Not quite what I meant, but, hey, I'll take it!

@Eyes of the Cervino I have never read a more threatening comment. BRB, unchecking the “skin” box on my organ donation card.

I just get my tattoos secondhand. It's better for the environment, and so much more affordable :)

I'm surprised they didn't try to flirt with you when they realized you only looked 12 but were of age. guys like them are literally hypocrites and creeps.

Story of my life 😭 I feel your pain

You know who else has a Young Face™? Danny Gonzalez. And he's awesome so don't worry my dude!

@not relevant Fr, what is it with a lot of guys and lesbians? Like my guy, they're not into you or what you were born as.

@Roxas Sora reminds me of that one sc (i think it was sc) interaction I saw on reddit where some guy was like "If you keep telling guys that you're a lesbian no man is gonna want you"

@Espeon wow wow 🤓

@Hazza’s gay vodka ✋👋

@Jada G.I Jane 2 can't wait to see

Hear that ladies you aren’t affected by gravity

I’m genderfluid so I guess I just walk around like I’m on the moon lol…

@paula tamara mohamad both at the same time

Dear god, I love all of you jajaja

SLAYYY WHAT A KING 😍😍 too bad about skipping leg day tho. that really was a sacrifice 😣😢😕😕

@Robby Midgett Or ANY girl lmao

@ChocolateAddictedArtist Yeah but I find it unlikely a bi girl is gonna like this tool anyway

@Emily F Oh, I sure hope. Unless she's a masochist. lol

@Tip Toes fair point, but also let's be honest, even if that person's bi she's probably gonna pass on mr "lgbqtehhhhh?!" regardless

I mean, technically, she could be. Bisexuality exists.

That's an interesting point. Especially since even obvious attempts at manipulation are so hard to call out -- if someone's maintaining enough plausible deniability that there's nothing concrete you can point at and say "knock it off" without sounding like a crazy person, then I imagine it'd be pretty easy for then to never receive any feedback and fall into an echo chamber of . . . well, of whatever this nonsense is, I guess.

It's kinda sad cause they would rather think of their emotions as a tool instead of actually feeling them, possibly to feel in control.

@Black Knight I'd say it's changing rapidly, personally,every girl I have met says "what?men can't cry?who says that?that's so stupid lol" cuz apparently they were not aware of these stereotypes,but again,not all girls I met represent the whole girls in the world,I think it's pretty equally divided,there is no shortage of dumb people you know

@Black Knight It's hard to say, where I live I'd say they're in the minority for sure, but I live in a relatively peaceful and kind community to begin with. Outside of my city (and I have done some extensive travel) I have seen places and met people where those women can be found in droves. I think age plays a big factor too. A lot of those types of women I notice are in their 30s, if not approaching that age, whereas the 20 somethings are much more accepting and inviting to the emotional side of men. Hopefully that is good news? Perhaps the next generation can produce more open minded men and women

@LittleMissFox Do you think those kind of women are in the majority or the minority?

@Black Knight I know, I see it way too often and it breaks my heart. These women need to be better. Men are just as human and just as susceptible to emotions, that isn't just a girl thing. :/

I agree but the problem is there are a lot of women who are turned off if a man cries aur shows vulnerability.Those women see it as weakness.

@jocelyn schneider bruh no one cares

@alex deppaye that's so true 😭

@jocelyn schneider looking for who askedddd

@dani it’s not because she’s a woman at all lmao. I AM A WOMAN. i think lots of women are very funny but she just isn’t. it just seems like most of the time she didn’t have anything to add to kurtis’ points and she didnt really make any jokes, just agreed with his.

@GG undercover that's literally a misogynistic take, even if most men you know are like that. When I had a girlfriend, I would try to wear cute outfits for her, but she would never compliment me on it. I would ask her what she thinks I would look cute in and she would say "idk".

honestly, most men in my experience don't even know the difference in what I wear (clothes, makeup, hairstyles, nails). when I get compliment, usually from other women. they notice. so I do it for them and me. feels hella good. men will like anything or hate whatever. I stopped giving a fuck when I realized that. besides, I've been hit on when I literally intentionally tried to look like a sack of comfy potatoes so I wouldn't get bothered, so I don't rate men anymore.

She’s not really pretty if she’s cutting u down b!!

@Lalalanddddd I’ve seen A LOT of women say this though so it’s definitely true for a good amount of people…

Tbh I feel like I’m one of the few women who doesn’t relate to this and idk how to feel about that…I was a tomboy growing up…

that guy is part of the background to the point that he has completely blended into the wall

@laurelcello no but the comments won't be wrong would they

@Ivnrik you’re the type of person the comment above you is probably referring to

@Daniel Drago no, it would be wrong

@Daniel Drago yeah but it's just good that she makes the distinction so she doesn't have to get comments like 'wELL aCtUaLly iT's nOt aLL mEn" lol
edit: if this comment makes you mad, you are exactly who i’m talking about

It would be fine either way bc of societal context

Men who think they are manly like tattoos on women. As a more feminine man, I don't find tattoos very attractive.

LMAOOO

Yeah same with dying hair

Just tattoo D E B T on yourself

@Kizface 3 omg i wish i could. i grew out my leg hair and i love it, but i have this ocd thing about feeling myself sweat and if my hair is grown out i only feel it more lmao.

@Adedoyin Adewole good point.

@ChocolateAddictedArtist no we have debt there’s no way we can afford to do that.

Or would even want to!

Is he implying we all have to bleach our hair lol-

I use one of those big clear inflatable spheres, like a human bouncy ball

@Bigboi lol those who do are just gross people.

@Bigboi tell me you're an incel without telling me you're an incel

These kinds of things that they teach YOUNG BOYS and men are highly damaging.
Isolating yourself within your emotions and being taught that anything different means you're weak and a failure, will ultimately result in unhealthy habits, and possible suicide.

As an asexual I was very triggered by this, like I’ve you’re gonna talk about the LGBT community then actually talk about the LGBT community without being misogynistic

Ikr!!

@kirakira damn... ive met people who were the exact opposite lol. its so weird how some people will cherrypick supporting minorities :/

@anahí i've unfortunately encountered a fair share of people who will support asexuals but not gay/trans people

""pffft! you worry about keeping yourself in a good mental state and make sure to not overwork yourself! LMAO! look at these losers! now im gonna go cut lumber while firing ak 47s and riding an sick motobike"
-these guys, probably

Im not joking, arm day is the ONLY day I like at the gym 😅

@DenEbony I love the sentiment here lol but you should know that all the power from punches actually comes from the legs. The arms are just the delivery system

HELL YEA!! WAR GODDESS!!!

You're attractive to some guys, trust me

Removing someone's blue eyes and putting them in your sockets can be considered a workout. We women just aren't trying hard enough to achieve our goals.

@the green one I’m joking.

@5ashll fellas is it sus to write things out with pen and paper?

But see, putting pen to paper/ typing it up Is the actually feminine part.

Idk if they realize they’re just speaking paragraphs lmao

Hope she and Curtis make more vids together. Cause they make a great team. ♥️♥️

@AE1_ Bro chill

we need MORE

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SO TRUE!! like…do these men know how much med school costs?! clearly not lol

yea same :/ its so annoying honestly.

@NaomiLii backpack with rocks helps a little 😔🤙
Somebody needs to make the LoZ iron boots real ASAP

god i'm so scared to start my medical transition... i like floating and shit, might be the only part of 'being a woman' i enjoy (aside from being outwardly unassuming and not making women uncomfortable)

@NaomiLii there should be a switch on the back of your calf that should turn it off :)

i'm so scared of having to learn to walk again once i start t

@josh'sgoinham “toxic body shamer” she insults misogynists to make them shut up cause they don’t understand logic

@RoboxerPlays yum

@pokerface troll

@The Special Interest Show! with Jupiter August she’s pretty active on her tiktok

@RoboxerPlays tbf danny do be yummy yum.

every podcast ran by men like this completely ignore sapphics

These dupes will be like “women” this that and the third and it never fails to mildly annoy me every time bc like… have u ever considered that a good portion of the “women” in question are not a part of ur cisheteronormative, nonsensical generalizations?

I swear and when they DO talk about us it’s in a way that sounds really degrading

but they included ace people to fit their argument lmao

You mean he kept laughing

@Jesus Christ: The Way, The Truth, The Life eh I don’t really feel like it

@Jesus Christ: The Way, The Truth, The Life omg guys jesus watches kurtis conner

plclip.com/video/6q9b-7-PW8k/wideo.html
Finally its here .

@Jesus Christ: The Way, The Truth, The Life noob

@Fern the Green Fairy leave out lesbians-ing

This is cinema storytelling at its piece. Nolan will never do better than this

I know he was SO proud when he edited that.

I’m gonna start calling lesbian erasure LOL’ing leaving out lesbians

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@Ness Marie So true. If there was an equivalent phrase for people of color, which implied you could treat them however, but not if it could bring hardship to the white people around them, nobody would call them "sensitive" for taking issue with that. Just shows how much further women still have to go.

@S Regan oh god I've ALWAYS hated that phrase im so glad other people feel the same. its such an ick thts so normalized on the internet. but then suddenly when u bring it up you're being "too sensitive" and "reaching"

I love reading stories we’re the main couple are so comfortable to show their vulnerability! Like yes! Give me more of that!!
About the whole “Guy’s shouldn’t be emotional” thing, my dad is literally like this. I asked my dad one time why I never see Him get emotional or cry. He said it’s because he’s a “man” so men don’t cry. I’m sad that he feels this way.

Dude fr THIS is also a common stereotype (the soft artsy dude) how did he miss that

Literally every fictional boy I like, I like because they’re emotional and usually end up talking about their emotions

nah bc ur so right

@Sir Bob Ik I did it wrong lol I didn’t catch it till someone liked

@axolotl beats or it’s very really good

Agreed! They have great synergy and I hope they do this again soon.

yo that's so true, it is pretty funny

Or it’s really very good

The fucking Leave Out Lesbians turning into LOL took me out 😭😭