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    comment "bachelor? i hardly know her" if ur reading this
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  • Kurtis Conner
    Kurtis Conner  Rok temu +12349

    did a response video to Russell's response video on my podcast channel if u wanna watch lol: plclip.com/video/XsdFBkLwoLE/wideo.html

    • Moiboi21
      Moiboi21 Miesiąc temu

      bachelor? I hardly know her

    • Erlea Perez
      Erlea Perez Miesiąc temu

      @Kurtis Conner this is the second video I’ve seen in your channel and oh my goodness, this is amazing content. I laughed so hard in both videos I saw about Fresh&Fit banned from TikTok and obvi this one. Thank you for your ✨amazing✨ comments about the people you talk about and keep being you! May God bless you and keep you❤️

    • Ryley Burket
      Ryley Burket 4 miesięcy temu

      Imagine if he did this in public bathroom

    • iT ́s n0rmáL
      iT ́s n0rmáL 4 miesięcy temu

      After litlle naive Timmy watched his videos he ended up breaking up with is gf and then his house burden and then he became homeless so don't listen to those dating coachs

    • Hannah E. K.
      Hannah E. K. 5 miesięcy temu +1

      @MrRickstopher there’s nothing wrong with modern feminism. Men also whined about the previous waves of feminism. You’re only uncomfortable with it because it’s not normalized yet.

  • DC-and-Tea
    DC-and-Tea Rok temu +11505

    I’m pretty confident that Russell has never actually met a woman before.

    • Jeffrey Dorman
      Jeffrey Dorman 2 godzin temu

      *Russell walks into a stable for the first time in his life*
      Russell: "Damn, those are some sexy horses. If women are sexy and horses are sexy, then that means... Woman = Horse!!!"

    • Riy Meep
      Riy Meep Rok temu

      His mom probably abandoned him when he was a baby

    • Julia Skye
      Julia Skye Rok temu

      @Pispi Pispi oh sorry mate

    • Pispi Pispi
      Pispi Pispi Rok temu +1

      @Julia Skye it's a reference to another video, I'm not ACTUALLY saying Star Wars is bad 😅
      P.S it's from drew gooden

    • Julia Skye
      Julia Skye Rok temu

      @Pispi Pispi whats so bad about watching star wars

  • Lunaarr_
    Lunaarr_ 7 miesięcy temu +2636

    Interesting fact: this guy felt so threatened by a fourteen year old girl that he had to block her (the 14 year old being me lol)

    • amina nasra
      amina nasra 2 dni temu +1

      definitely girlboss

    • Yuri Ayaumi
      Yuri Ayaumi 3 dni temu +1

      Material girl 👠💍👜💵

    • Kira Zaman
      Kira Zaman 4 dni temu +1

      GIRLBOSS👑 as a 21 year old woman, I never thought I’d be idolizing a 14 year old. But you are now my absolute idol, and I shall now bow down to you my queen👸

    • Dee
      Dee 4 dni temu +1

      ​@C.o.R (Lex) LMAO

    • Dee
      Dee 4 dni temu +1

      Gaslight gatekeep girlboss

  • Audrey Wilkins
    Audrey Wilkins 7 miesięcy temu +1346

    As a woman, I appreciate you mentioning how women can't really go anywhere without being afraid of men attacking them. You set the standard for men much higher just by being a good person.

  • animepiglover
    animepiglover 8 miesięcy temu +5140

    I've decided dudes claiming to be alphas are furries, why else are they so obsessed with being a wolf???

    • Misery
      Misery Dzień temu

      @elenoid AHAHAHA

    • CrAzY WoLf 399
      CrAzY WoLf 399 2 dni temu +1

      as furry supporter, we don't claim him, pass him to the gamer community

    • Stormy Talks
      Stormy Talks 9 dni temu +1

      That's just an insult to furries!

    • danigirii
      danigirii 10 dni temu

      so does that mean in forms except physical, they are wolves?

    • Jabroni
      Jabroni 16 dni temu +1

      Ants, horses, and wolves… what’s going on here?

  • Richard G
    Richard G 6 miesięcy temu +714

    As a man with 10 years of happy marriage, there is just one thing a guy needs to remember when starting out on the dating scene:
    Women are just human beings like everyone else.
    This means:
    * There is no single way to behave, or thing you can say or do that will make any woman want to date you. What impresses one woman might not impress another.
    * While good hygiene and dressing nicely can help to an extent, many women just will not be interested in you. It's not because you're ugly, its because humans are complicated. Don't stress about it.
    * It's fine to be friends with women. In fact, having female friends will help you understand women better, and will open up your network, potentially bringing you into contact with potential dates better than if you sat alone in a bar trying to hit on random strangers.
    * Don't go in looking for sex. Women find it really off-putting when you approach them like a dog salivating over a bowl of pedigree chum. You might think you're being suave and cool, but most women can tell when you're just horny and looking for sex.

    • Overseeer2579
      Overseeer2579 17 godzin temu

      Yes to all of this!

    • Richella River
      Richella River 26 dni temu +6

      You're an absolute king 👑

    • figidigital🧩
      figidigital🧩 26 dni temu +7

      this needs to more attention for more ppl learn about that

    • Olympia Dreamer
      Olympia Dreamer 2 miesięcy temu +22

      Fantastic advice 🙌

    • kim ramirez
      kim ramirez 2 miesięcy temu +35

      Thank you king, my boyfriend is like this and are the main reasons I got and continue to be with him

  • Avery Ryan
    Avery Ryan Rok temu +11740

    Guys like Russell are the reason girls cover their drinks at parties.

    • Kira Zaman
      Kira Zaman 4 dni temu

      @Charlotte omfg ima start doing that, nah ima take it to the next level and have some vodka in a baby bottle🍼

    • 1 0
      1 0 Miesiąc temu +2

      @Charlotte Sippy cups for the win!

    • empresscami
      empresscami 6 miesięcy temu +1

      I have been taught to always cover my drinks.

    • Charlotte
      Charlotte 7 miesięcy temu +18

      no one can roofie me when i bring my sippy cup

    • Avery Kerr
      Avery Kerr 10 miesięcy temu

      first we share the same name and love the pfp 😫🙏

  • Lexi Marie
    Lexi Marie 6 miesięcy temu +866

    Also I think it’s really funny that this man said “until they move on to greener pastures” he’s literally acknowledging that he is not the greener pasture & women would be better without him😂

  • Flameo hotman
    Flameo hotman 3 miesięcy temu +242

    The whole “women have their life on easy mode” bullshit speech really pissed me off. Like yes, yes Russel my life is so easy, you know being sexually assaulted twice, wanting to commit toaster bath, and not being accepted in my own home is real easy. And it’s the fact that people who agree with him exist, I’ve had to explain to boys my age how rape can ruin someone’s life. AS IF IT WASNT OBVIOUS ENOUGH. Saying shit like that doesn’t take balls it takes years of ignorance. I’m so tired of the bullshit spewing from the mouths of people like this, seriously get fucking help. The amount of times I’ve encountered men like him makes me wonder if I’ll ever be safe.

    • Flameo hotman
      Flameo hotman Dzień temu +1

      @Nero B yes, of course! i totally understand and male victims are constantly told to ‘suck it up’ and that their suffering isn’t valid. their pain is just as valid and deserves to be respected. but that was just my experience as a woman in today’s world, maybe not the best example to use as their are victims of different gender identities.

    • Nero B
      Nero B Dzień temu

      I mean, sorry that happened to you, but those are not women exclusive problems

    • dylan van dort
      dylan van dort 5 dni temu

      I mean you still haven't toasterd yourself so your not making a good point

    • Kat Hansen
      Kat Hansen 25 dni temu +8

      @Flameo hotman that's good! im glad you're doing okay :]

  • Sofia Quinones
    Sofia Quinones 2 miesięcy temu +136

    The word “mate”, or any sort of animal metaphor, in a misogynistic context always makes me cringe. It’s one big disgusting red flag

    • Sofia Quinones
      Sofia Quinones Miesiąc temu +2

      @Abby Germany exactly 🙌

    • Abby Germany
      Abby Germany Miesiąc temu +14

      The only time “mate” is appropriate to use is when British or Aussies use it. Like “love”, “hun”, “sweetie”.

  • Morgan Rodgers
    Morgan Rodgers 5 miesięcy temu +324

    I know he's lying about his "two girlfriends" he lived with at the same time. There's no way they were angry cleaning, talking shit about him in the bathroom because *he's always in the gd bathroom*

    • SpawnRevenge92
      SpawnRevenge92 Miesiąc temu


    • Sam G
      Sam G Miesiąc temu +11

      They're in the bathroom with him when he films. Cleaning and talking shit in sign language behind his back while he stares adoringly at himself in the mirror

    • Amanda Davis
      Amanda Davis 2 miesięcy temu +12


  • stoptryingtomakefetchhappen

    as a girl dating another girl, can confirm all we do is get our nails done and go shopping. we got our nails done 19 times this week

    • sop
      sop 10 dni temu

      @Nkandu M and that's why I steal them :)

    • HøneyBee ._.
      HøneyBee ._. 12 dni temu

      As a masc lesbian, I can assure everyone this is a fact- shopping and nails is my life and I do it almost more than 19 times a week

    • Zackfish12345
      Zackfish12345 14 dni temu

      19 times in a week? That’s not even 3 times a day…are you sure you are real women?

    • Mayonnaise Parade
      Mayonnaise Parade 17 dni temu

      Lesbians have so many fingers

    • sw33tsunia
      sw33tsunia 18 dni temu

      me and my fwb have already gotten to 40 this week, y'all are newbies. we live at the salon and we eat nail polish and makeup blenders for our meals instead of real food.

  • no face
    no face 3 miesięcy temu +332

    the thing is... there is NOTHING wrong with casual sex. but why do men think having a few sexual partners = being a shit human being, lying, gaslighting and disrespecting all of them? as a woman who doesn't like commitment, seeing how many men are like that creep or follow him and his advice just turns me off having casual sexual partners, or even opening up to men, because so many of them just see you as a sex hole.
    its fine to have sex casually, while *RESPECTING* your partner and making sure you're on the same page every step of the way. calling us "mares" in his "stable", talking about ways to "outsmart" us or straight up deceive us when you know she wants something else entirely... that is SO creepy, so gross, so dehumanizing. why do men expect us not to be outraged and literally never want to let a man touch us again...? I mean these dumb, disgusting, trash humans have millions of other men following them. how am I supposed to know a man I am respecting as my sexual partner doesn't just see me as a "MaRe iN hIS sTabLE"? if you are a man like that please go fucking die. seriously.

    • Jeffrey Dorman
      Jeffrey Dorman 3 godzin temu

      It's called narcissism. Guys like that are more interested in their own egos than they are in other people (namely partners).

    • Laboni Bhattacharya
      Laboni Bhattacharya Miesiąc temu +2

      100% agreed.

    • Kolby Cosgrove
      Kolby Cosgrove Miesiąc temu +21

      @baguem’s kpop that's not even what the comment was about, it was her being mad that she is objectified and seen as a lesser being for wanting to have a casual relationship. Not every relationship has to be long-term or serious. She brought up the fact of other women wanting long-term relationships and the dude completely using her and not mentioning any of his true intentions. It's a comment about how men like Russell will use women then throw them away when he's done with them, not even taking into account their feelings, again casual relationships are fine when both people are on the same page, respect each other, and don't see the other as an object just to use. /nm /srs

    • Banjo Fangirl
      Banjo Fangirl Miesiąc temu +24

      @arcane living bruh moment + never felt the loving touch of a woman

  • tkettlesoup
    tkettlesoup 3 miesięcy temu +51

    rule number one: never let a MAN tell you that he knows what WOMEN want better than they themselves do; i guarantee you that he absolutely does not

  • Anna Violet
    Anna Violet 5 miesięcy temu +136

    This guy's whole thing is teaching other guys to not take "no" for an answer, down to not even standing in line. Paired with all that misogyny, im scared for any woman that has to interact with him.

  • NEOO
    NEOO 7 miesięcy temu +125

    Growing up as a young girl you were literally told to be afraid of walking alone and that misogyny and sexism was something that was inevitable.

  • atlas
    atlas Rok temu +16044

    russell’s only personality trait is owning a suit and being misogynistic

    • chatxx
      chatxx 2 miesięcy temu

      ​@Raphael Marley Alves he watched himym and thought, "hmm, barney seems like a good guy, let's make him my personality"

      MFREBEL 3 miesięcy temu

      So Barney Stinson without the charm.

    • BananaBanana
      BananaBanana 3 miesięcy temu +1

      Those two things somehow manage to still be one personality trait

    • Cera
      Cera 4 miesięcy temu

      @Bustin' bojack horseman

    • *kazoo noises*
      *kazoo noises* 4 miesięcy temu +3

      The fact that neither of those are even personality traits says so much about russell lmfao 😭🤣 my guy has no personality

  • Thomas Jefferson
    Thomas Jefferson Miesiąc temu +15

    Can't believe his mother went through a menstrual cycle every month of her young life just to painfully give birth to this man.

  • baylee 𓆈
    baylee 𓆈 Miesiąc temu +20

    imagine if this guy had a daughter.. i would feel so bad for that poor girl she would probably be cornered into all these ridiculous expectations

  • kaitlin
    kaitlin 3 miesięcy temu +48

    Can we get an interview with this man's mother? Or possibly every woman in his family? I really just need them to express their embarrassment and shame for being related to him.

  • Rivers Cuomo
    Rivers Cuomo 4 miesięcy temu +60

    As a bi girl who considers herself a bit promiscuous, I want to become Amish out of spite for this underwater horse from the 50s

  • Smitten Kitten
    Smitten Kitten Rok temu +19091

    He says he's bored with women taking photos on their phones, but stands in his bathroom, talking to his phone.

    • Ida Mechlenborg
      Ida Mechlenborg 6 miesięcy temu +1

      I don’t know, what else he thinks we are supposed to take pictures with? A laptop? Those cheap one-use cameras, that you got as a kid?

    • Abri_Saber
      Abri_Saber 7 miesięcy temu

      The hypocrisy

    • Kyimira
      Kyimira 7 miesięcy temu

      @Hercules Brofister LMAO

    • Arch
      Arch 8 miesięcy temu +7

      @Hercules Brofister ... Are you serious or am I just really bad at recognizing jokes?

    • A guy with very cool glasses
      A guy with very cool glasses 8 miesięcy temu +8

      @Hercules Brofister Ok... "everything a man does is for good reason" bro I'm a dude and I completely disagree with you

  • pinkhairbean
    pinkhairbean 5 miesięcy temu +68

    Kurtis, the more I hear you, the more I respect you. Thank you for being you, a decent human being. Showing the empathy and acknowledging how women do have it hard and there's this abundancy of misogynistic sexist men like this and many other you talked about. I am glad you take a stand for women against those vile beings. ofc they'll call you names because you defend women,respect us and not be disrespectful sexist fragile masculine dudes like them.

    • every thing
      every thing Miesiąc temu +5

      @G-Unit ofc. Masculinity doesn't have to be rooted in mysoginy and kurtis is a great example of that.

    • G-Unit
      G-Unit 4 miesięcy temu

      All good but please don't think that this what masculinity is..

  • sane cat lady
    sane cat lady 3 miesięcy temu +31

    Calling this man a horse is extremely offensive to these beautiful animals 🤣

  • Abby Gould
    Abby Gould 5 miesięcy temu +26

    How come all these "pick up artists" always think that the way to get a girl is to put them down? That's not gonna make us want to date you, it's gonna make us hate you.

  • treedeer thethingy
    treedeer thethingy 7 miesięcy temu +20

    yeah, i'm a dude, but i know what it's like to be a woman, and he's completely wrong. he has the misogynistic "oh, they can get what they want by shaking their ass"' view, and he's completely wrong(in most cases anyway). you get treated as weaker, dumber, and worthless outside of child-bearing and sandwiches, and no one listens to what you have to say(most men don't, anyway).
    Also, on a lighter note, love the Clueless shirt!

  • cat_strangler
    cat_strangler Rok temu +6631

    Looks like Kurtis drank his daily dose of respecting women juice.

    • Kira Zaman
      Kira Zaman 4 dni temu

      Whenever I hear “respect women juice” my mind goes to some very dirty places….💦

    • spooky doot doot
      spooky doot doot 12 dni temu +4

      eat, sleep, breathe feminism

    • duSk.ynightmare
      duSk.ynightmare 15 dni temu +6

      Drinks it with breakfast every morning

    • Slendo_boi
      Slendo_boi Miesiąc temu +12

      The most Chad drink

    • BayArea
      BayArea 2 miesięcy temu +2

      Yea i wonder what mg he's on.

  • ASMRyouVEGANyet?
    ASMRyouVEGANyet? 3 miesięcy temu +17

    The problem with these guys is they underestimate women's anger. If these women decided to get back at him he'd be absolutely doomed.

  • AAA Color Coded Lyrics
    AAA Color Coded Lyrics 5 miesięcy temu +25

    Do you ever wonder if pregnant women push out a baby and go "ugh that was a mistake"? Pretty sure that's what happened with Russell and his mom.

  • ellie b
    ellie b 5 miesięcy temu +17

    dude, i can’t thank you enough for making vids like this. it’s so validating to see a man who agrees that these things are sexist and i’m not just being crazy

  • Octobot521
    Octobot521 2 miesięcy temu +24

    When I was at the age where most guys look up to those pick up artists I was actually researching those weird deep sea fish and giving my class unsolicited marine biology lectures whenever I got the chance. We are not the same.

    • Corvids-Clutch
      Corvids-Clutch 22 godzin temu

      Humbolt squids are cool to me.

    • Octobot521
      Octobot521 25 dni temu

      @Joe M ye they're pretty cool

    • Richella River
      Richella River 26 dni temu


    • Joe M
      Joe M 2 miesięcy temu

      Omg hi friend! Do you like magnapenna squid?!? 💗

    • Mister Bean
      Mister Bean 2 miesięcy temu

      Username checks out

  • Gigi White
    Gigi White Rok temu +14251

    Russell sounds like the guy who tells lesbians ‘I bet i could change your mind’ like honestly

    • Poqu Flower
      Poqu Flower 25 dni temu +1

      He is exactly the reason I _am_ a lesbian mate

    • Valerie Valentino
      Valerie Valentino 27 dni temu +1


    • Cyan Baba
      Cyan Baba Miesiąc temu +2

      i bet he would post a meme like
      "u see a lesbian i see a challenge"

    • ajammyy
      ajammyy Miesiąc temu

      @Cassidy Conroy pulled a sangwoo on you

    • BayArea
      BayArea 2 miesięcy temu


  • Jordan Singh
    Jordan Singh 2 miesięcy temu +12

    “Women have life on easy mode,” says guy that probably never struggled a day in his life.

  • Jamie Joyride
    Jamie Joyride 22 dni temu +8

    It’s still so crazy to me that he doesn’t see an issue with his “you can only talk with me through this group chat” rule. By his account, he has two girlfriends and they live with him. They aren’t dating each other. So that’s really fucked up that he’s trying to limit their means of communication with him. Since they’re not dating each other, these women completely reserve the right to speak to him privately about anything, especially private and intimate details. If it’s a matter of safety, then obviously they should discuss it with everyone present, but I’m sure 99% of the time, that wasn’t the subject of conversation. It’s hard to believe he justifies his weird and controlling behavior so staunchly, but then again, he’s an underwater horse from the 50s, so I guess I should suspend disbelief.

  • Gabrielle VanSant
    Gabrielle VanSant 8 miesięcy temu +41

    Guys should be watching Kurtis to get girls because he’s actually…. Like… respectful? Funny? An actual nice person? Someone worth dating????

  • Alissa Turnbull
    Alissa Turnbull 2 miesięcy temu +10

    One of the best things I've ever learned- especially as a woman- is that "No." is a complete sentence

  • Kitkat
    Kitkat Rok temu +6035

    Just the fact that Russell exists proves women don't live on easy mode.

    • BayArea
      BayArea 2 miesięcy temu

      Now I'm craving a kit cat bar.

    • Aleks Kush
      Aleks Kush 11 miesięcy temu +1

      @Jared Davidson So, I'm a statistics B.A. Hit me with facts :) Make your point with sources and links and numbers... Don't talk about it or refer to it in a vague way. Do it!

    • Elsa Chee
      Elsa Chee 11 miesięcy temu

      @Jared Davidson ok so what stats did you look at and how did you interpret them?

    • Jared Davidson
      Jared Davidson 11 miesięcy temu

      @Elsa Chee The Bureau for Labor Statistics and the Department of Justice. I'm not applying my life experience to everyone in the world. I would never do that because anecdotal evidence is the weakest form of evidence. I base my opinions off of statistics. Facts are not biased. Though I will say that statistics can be skewed and misinterpreted by anyone to make their point, but if read as they are meant to be read they are the strongest form of evidence.

    • Elsa Chee
      Elsa Chee 11 miesięcy temu

      @Jared Davidson what stats did you look at? And why does your life experience apply to everyone?

  • ASMR Shanny
    ASMR Shanny 7 miesięcy temu +84

    Missed opportunity to make a mare-ied joke 😂
    But honestly your respect for others and women is awesome 👏🏻

  • QueenOfCrows
    QueenOfCrows 7 miesięcy temu +22

    I wonder if Russell knows that the term "stable" is also used by pimps - literal human traffickers - to refer to the women that they "own."

  • Twig
    Twig 5 miesięcy temu +46

    11:43 - Ok. Yes, communication is a very important thing when in a poly relationship, that statement is correct. But the CORRECT form of communication in that regard is NOT claiming the girls youre dating "arent allowed" to text eachother without you knowing. Holy shit thats so fucking abusive?? While communication between all parties is important in those kinds of non-mono. relationships, individual freedoms and means of communication and individual relationships within the group is super important too and hes completely stripped them of all that if this is true like. Buddy in the response video claims Kurtis cant critisize that part because he hasnt been in a poly relationship, but Russel is literally so wrong about it he cant be on a high horse about Knowing Polyamorous Relationships. Especially when he doesn't use having multiple partners as a genuine connection to everyone like Poly relationships are supposed to be, he just sees it as an opportunity to fuck a bunch of girls without consequences- thats evident in how wrong he is about the texting thing+ the horse analogy.

    • betp
      betp 3 miesięcy temu +1

      he also can't be on a high horse at all because all his mares, by HIS admission, left him for greener pastures. what a guy what a prize yeehaw

  • Kyah St. Marie
    Kyah St. Marie 8 miesięcy temu +10

    Dude has the audacity to call himself a stable when there's nothing stable about him.

  • mari f
    mari f Rok temu +7717

    the way russel made fun of girls for taking mirror pics but every single of his videos is in front of a mirror...

    • KHA30S
      KHA30S 2 miesięcy temu +1

      @Cologram I agree with you more since women's upper body, breasts and face in general have been sexualized for a very long time and the culture kinda grown around it.

    • Cologram
      Cologram 2 miesięcy temu +4

      It’s like how pretty much every male with a podcast shames women for posting their bodies online and then the guys’ instagrams are just shirtless pics showing off their abs

    • KHA30S
      KHA30S 3 miesięcy temu +4

      @Hamiana Grande not gonna say anything about Paris or Poppy but naming your kid India is too cringe, even for me a person living in India.

  • couch Potato
    couch Potato Miesiąc temu +6

    What it’s like dating a girl that’s bi: we bond over hot female celebrities. Other than that it’s pretty much the same as a straight relationship

  • Sacred Lamb
    Sacred Lamb 5 miesięcy temu +20

    Old fashioned parents might see a guy like this, and tell you "here's a good fellow for you to merry". This is what scares me the most about those pick up artists. Even if you are smart enough to get away, no one would suspect them of being bad people.

  • Vashmah Tehreem
    Vashmah Tehreem 7 miesięcy temu +66

    Women:- *have to fight for the freedom of their own body, child brides are still very much a thing all over the world including USA, 80 percent of women have been harrased, Women are mostly not taken seriously as a professional in science fields, Have to endure period poverty and stigma, Gender pay gap, Gender bias in education, Poor access to healthcare, Lack of representation in many fields, Having to give birth to their rapists kid, sexualization of teenage girls by schools.* And so so much more!
    Honestly imagine being this insensitive while a literal femicide is going on all around the world.

  • Cheyenne Hayden
    Cheyenne Hayden 5 miesięcy temu +11

    "women have their lives on easy mode"
    Um excuse me sir, that is the biggest pile of absolute garbage I've ever heard coming from a man in my life

  • Malak
    Malak Rok temu +6646

    what’s funny is that guys like Russell think they’re a “true man” and an “alpha” or whatever, when their behavior is more like 9 year old boys having tantrums, while guys like Kurtis, no matter how feminine or masculine they choose to act, are actual adult men that i respect.

    • sigh
      sigh Miesiąc temu


    • MissCaraMint
      MissCaraMint Miesiąc temu

      @Marti Yes exactly. Sure there are men out there who might not find sime feminine considered thing their cup of tea, but that us wildly different from being afraid of being associated with annything feminine ever. Men who chose their interests on their own enjoyment of it rather than what people might think of them are adults. Men who do chores that are considered feminine because they view the simply as chores that need doing rather than an attack on their masculinity have a very fragile view of their own identity, and I feel a bit sorry for them.

    • Avien
      Avien Rok temu +2

      @I got BEans his audience is 90% female feelsbadman. Am one of the 10%

  • MJ’s Cabaret
    MJ’s Cabaret 4 miesięcy temu +13

    dude is “fearless” and “confident” but turns his comments off and blocks kurtis

  • Andrew Matthews
    Andrew Matthews 6 miesięcy temu +51

    "This guy has a favorite movie..."
    Wolf of Wall Street.
    His favorite movie is Wolf of Wall Street.

    • Patti
      Patti 20 dni temu

      Or American Psycho

    • Obi Wan Kenobi
      Obi Wan Kenobi Miesiąc temu +1

      Yeah but we’re supposed to hate Jordan Belford in “the wolf of Wall Street” and also “the wolf of Wall Street” is a great film. We’re not supposed to like Jordan Belford, he sucks and we know it.

    • BayArea
      BayArea 2 miesięcy temu

      Don't hate on Leonardo D.

    • betp
      betp 3 miesięcy temu +5

      or fight club

  • whore
    whore 8 miesięcy temu +69

    when i see how much respect kurtis has for women:
    *i HaTe aLL mEn BuT…*

    • GJ
      GJ 2 miesięcy temu +1

      @MEX Mirror yes, not ONLY women are scared to walk alone, but all women are scared to walk alone. There are guys who are scared to walk alone, but it's not a universal experience for every guy, whereas every girl is scared to walk alone. There lies the problem.

    • MEX Mirror
      MEX Mirror 6 miesięcy temu +2

      Me and kurtis probably have different political views, but I respect the guy, he’s legit. He and I have similar moral views though. I just don’t think only women are scared to walk alone, I’m a 5 3 almost adult and I’m worried constantly every time I go anywhere. He never said that though and I think he knows that anyways so

  • Moon Bunny Studios
    Moon Bunny Studios 3 miesięcy temu +5

    Every day, i become happier than im a lesbian. Russel has given me new perspective on lucky i am.

  • aspen
    aspen 7 miesięcy temu +27

    when you imagine him on the brink of tears it gets funnier

  • Maggie M
    Maggie M 3 miesięcy temu +7

    This guy heard the term “horse girl” and took it to heart.

  • I can’t believe Beomgyu is taller than Bangchan

    This man definitely has the most nonexistent dating life, and decided to become an ‘influencer’ because thats the only way girls would even ‘look’ at him

  • Ayesha The Great
    Ayesha The Great 5 miesięcy temu +5

    The thing I like about kurtis is he manages to give these real issues a serious response yet keeping the video entertaining ... some PLcliprs who have talked about these shitty people give neutral response to not come off as being too PC or SJW but he keeps it real

  • Mr MistyEyes
    Mr MistyEyes 10 miesięcy temu +8826

    "What it's like dating a girl who's bi, part one."
    How I wish the rest of that video was:
    *It's exactly the same as dating heterosexual women because bisexuality doesn't make women more or less promiscuous than their heterosexual counterparts, nor does it mean they're more 'adventurous' or any more willing to put up with my misogynistic, chauvinistic attitude because I recognize that women, regardless of sexuality are not a commodity and should be treated with respect.*

    • Barnabasil
      Barnabasil 47 minut temu

      but I thought women were horses

    • Weber
      Weber 15 dni temu

      I’d argue it definitely doesn’t make them. Statistically I would say they are more adventurous than their heterosexual counterparts. Or something along those lines.kind of like in the sense that statistically being gay means you are likelier to have more partners being promiscuous than of being heterosexual. Albeit that is far more likely due to the ability to do that. I think giving misogynistic dating advice is problematic. I hope he’s just a shill that doesn’t actually believe this shit.

    • ~KittyCathXp~
      ~KittyCathXp~ Miesiąc temu

      @eblatz80 ???

  • Zen-yang
    Zen-yang 4 miesięcy temu +11

    “Women live their lives on east mode! All they have to do is objectify themselves and determine their self worth based on how men view them!”

  • Gamaliel Harris
    Gamaliel Harris 5 miesięcy temu +13

    “Russel is a horse from the 50’s that lives underwater”
    So he’s a seahorse.

  • Yes
    Yes 6 miesięcy temu +23

    i like how he says he likes clear communication too, and then also says that if your having problems or an argument with your girlfriend to just bang it out. where did the communication go huh??

  • Sarah ursic
    Sarah ursic 5 miesięcy temu +5

    Those two girls are dating and completely kicked HIM out of that relationship and he is too oblivious to even realize it .
    Who knows maybe " they were roomates" .

  • Louise Klein
    Louise Klein Rok temu +7457

    the fact that women are complaining about his misogynistic behavior for MONTHS and he just ignored it, but then when a man pointed it out he felt obligated to make six videos explaining himself ... that says a lot

    • Danielle Spargo
      Danielle Spargo Rok temu +2

      Tyler, The Annihilator
      rofl, grasping at straws to accuse someone of grasping at straws.
      reminds of of that really old xhibit meme
      "hey, i heard you like grasping as straws so i put grasping at straws in your grasping at straws
      so you can grasp at straws while grasping at straws." 😅😅

    • Danielle Spargo
      Danielle Spargo Rok temu +2

      Jj Pelham
      just read the comments, women with 5 million followers, twice the number of subs as kurtis, _did_ in fact call him out, but he just blocked them

    • Danielle Spargo
      Danielle Spargo Rok temu +1

      Julian Haelig
      lol read the comment directly above yours. and then maybe think about editing your post.

    • Danielle Spargo
      Danielle Spargo Rok temu

      rofll is that what he did? does that mean he saw kurtis's vid?? omg that would make me so happy

    • Tyler, The Annihilator
      Tyler, The Annihilator Rok temu +7

      @Jj Pelham you're saying feminists rely a lot on straws.. yet your comment itself is based on pure ignorance.

  • IcyPopsicle
    IcyPopsicle Miesiąc temu +2

    I like how in the “stable” TikTok Russel said “… they’re gonna move on, to greener pastures” as if he’s admitting that he’s a bad partner

  • loverrlee
    loverrlee 28 dni temu +2

    I literally gagged when he talked about his “stable” of women. 🤢🤮
    The only stable I want is a stable happy long term relationship with my husband, which I have. ❤️

  • Bella M
    Bella M 2 dni temu +1

    he had a really good joke, the “do you agree with me? yay or nay” but it got totally cancelled out by the “i can say ‘that’ with confidence” love the vid tho :)

  • Ashley
    Ashley 7 miesięcy temu +2

    As a female I can tell you....they're all so far off it's unreal. Ask women what women want. It's not rocket science.

  • j
    j Rok temu +5322

    “easy mode” it’s a shame that some women had to carry these type of men for 9 months. I feel bad for his mother.

    • ¿Mayu?
      ¿Mayu? Rok temu

      Neomu happy

    • kiri
      kiri Rok temu +1

      Maye hoffman in some cases they absolutely aren’t different (kinda feel like this was one of them), but they can still be very different.

    • Maye hoffman
      Maye hoffman Rok temu +5

      @kiri partially true, but parenting has a huge impact on children's behavior in adulthood. His dad most likely told him all these things

    • Skylar Stypulczak
      Skylar Stypulczak Rok temu +5

      He has mommy issues for sure

  • Jayah Moore
    Jayah Moore 7 miesięcy temu +7

    Kurtis.. my man. You completely missed a perfect opportunity to make a "you wouldn't know her she goes to a different school" joke

  • Rogue the Hyena-Dog
    Rogue the Hyena-Dog 4 miesięcy temu +3

    oh my god. this guy is straight up abusive and he doesn’t even try to hide it

  • emi エミ
    emi エミ 5 miesięcy temu +4

    Being a woman is hard af. Every time I walk home late I have to walk really fast and any guy that crosses the road near me feels like i might be robbed or attacked. I can't wear baggy warm clothes when it's cold because I'll be called a dyke. But when it's too hot and I wear light clothes I'm a hoe. I work as a chef and the sexism and misogyny is INSANE. You're never taken seriously or listened to by your boss. You can't just get up and put on clothes, you have to do hair, makeup, choose appropriate clothing and it takes much longer. Also wear uncomfortable wired bras all day. Then going to bed you have to take off your makeup, cleanse, exfoliate, moisturize. Shaving takes almost an hour. Guys have it on easy mode believe me.

  • Cecilia Riemer
    Cecilia Riemer 7 miesięcy temu +2

    Your ability of being genuinely funny and respecting women and standing up for them is so much more elevate than any other content

  • Luna Lluna
    Luna Lluna Rok temu +4098

    So basically all his "girlfriends" did was quietly clean, gossip about him, go shopping and get their nails done. Yep he never had a relationship before

    • K O
      K O Rok temu +22

      He just had roommates 😂😂😂 they probably didn’t know he was calling them his girlfriends and they’re just complaining bc he doesn’t rinse his dishes 😂😂😂

    • dumb rat b!tch
      dumb rat b!tch Rok temu

      @Ashik Jaman huh?

    • Ashik Jaman
      Ashik Jaman Rok temu +7

      Carrot Eat hot chip and lie

    • oa
      oa Rok temu +18

      Cecilia M ahshshshhash i swear he was created in a lab. i can’t imagine him being born.

  • Cage Kid
    Cage Kid 4 miesięcy temu +4

    The internalized homosexuality this man gives off
    Honestly pursuing men would be much easier for him considering no woman alive wants him but I'm not sure men would either

    • F C
      F C Miesiąc temu +1

      Yes! I think he'd have a chance with the type of guys who would follow him, actually...

  • Hevale Min
    Hevale Min 6 miesięcy temu +2

    When I was still living as a woman and my live-in partner was still living as a man (we're both trans but didn't know that then) my partner had another partner (who was, and still is, a woman) and there were issues with communication and jealousy until we all just talked it out in a group chat. The difference there, is that none of us were misogynistic weirdos and we all respected each other.

  • Darth Vader
    Darth Vader 4 miesięcy temu +4

    i rewatch this like every three or four months cause you always make me laugh so hard and put me in a good mood, but holy shit, the thing with the mares, the horses, it made me cry my mascara off hahah it's literally so wild. thanks for the videos

  • Ritika Singh
    Ritika Singh 3 miesięcy temu +5

    Here's the thing. He's "rich" right. And he chooses to film his videos only in his bathroom. So his bathroom must be the grandest part of his "mansion" right?
    And yet.. the bathroom is still depressing as hell.

  • Rowan edits peppa
    Rowan edits peppa Rok temu +5332

    “What it’s like to date a girl who’s bi” *exactly the same as dating a straight girl but you both have a die hard crush on Natalie Portman*

  • Evan Vinet
    Evan Vinet 6 miesięcy temu +2

    When I was in my early 20s and going through a really bad breakup, I fell prey to these PUA guys, but it didn't take me very long to realize they were full of shit. Seeing these turds try and prey upon guys who were like me really boils my blood

  • Taru OwO
    Taru OwO 4 miesięcy temu +2

    He says that women leaving him behind is “moving on to greener pastures” but still fails to understand that him not being a green pasture is the problem and the reason why he needs a “flow of mares in and out” of his shitty run down stable.

  • Anime_Obsessed 360
    Anime_Obsessed 360 2 dni temu

    Can I just say I am very glad this guy ignolaged that he doesn't know what Its like to be a girl and STILL very correctly depicted some of the things girls have to go through.

  • Distant Dreams
    Distant Dreams 5 miesięcy temu +4

    I think i threw up in my mouth a bit every time that guy opened his mouth. To think that people that disgusting are actually real...

  • Anna
    Anna Rok temu +4474

    Secret to getting women: respect them to the same level as Kurtis.

      OH GREAT HEAVENS 16 dni temu

      *be kurtis

    • Your assigned fbi agent
      Your assigned fbi agent Miesiąc temu

      or even better, be kurtis

    • madd_step
      madd_step Miesiąc temu

      @AdzukiBean I like that you said "we" like you were part of what I was talking about lol. I think a handful of what I was referring to has been deleted. Sometimes the way women approach/respond to guys is flawed too. people are flawed. relationships and romance is hard and respect is a two way street.

    • AdzukiBean
      AdzukiBean Miesiąc temu

      @madd_step yea, not all guys are pigs. That’s not what we are saying. We are just acknowledging that the way guys approach women sometimes is flawed, and that the quickest way to get into a good relationship is mutual care and respect

    • AdzukiBean
      AdzukiBean Miesiąc temu

      @Ioan Turcu yea, sure. But when you dont think of them that way, the relationship is already bound to fail. You need to pick someone with all of those qualities sure, but you also need to pick someone with that spark. If your trying to get into a relationship with someone you know won’t go anywhere your just wasting each others time. Especially when that boy could be using that same energy on a girl that treats him the same

  • Ymir
    Ymir 4 miesięcy temu +1

    respect to how much effort you put into your videos with these little skits and everything

  • Clover Jane
    Clover Jane 3 miesięcy temu

    Thank you for shining a light on the fact that women need to have something to defend them selves when going anywhere alone, we shouldn’t have to because WE ARE PEOPLE but ya know the world iS a MeSsEd Up PlAcE.

  • Ben Fletcher
    Ben Fletcher 17 dni temu

    He honestly seems like the kind of guy to “low key” recommend to his fellow single friends that they drug women

  • Obi Wan Kenobi
    Obi Wan Kenobi Miesiąc temu +3

    I have to say, this Russel guy is so obviously a virgin that he makes Napoleon Dynamite look like James Bond.

  • Becca
    Becca Rok temu +5077

    Russell: Blocks Kurtis
    Kurtis: so you have chosen DEATH

  • chloe roose
    chloe roose 3 miesięcy temu +6

    “we need the group chat to keep communication clear” *oh that could actually be smart…* “hit ‘em enough to keep them busy, straight to the bedroom” **OH NEVERMIND**

  • Fernanda Pascoto
    Fernanda Pascoto Miesiąc temu +2

    I’ll never get sick of this video 😂 I’ve watched it too many times but it’s still not enough, dude

  • JinxIsMissing💀
    JinxIsMissing💀 4 miesięcy temu +3

    We need more people like Kurtis in this world

  • Elise Esbjornsson
    Elise Esbjornsson 5 miesięcy temu +5

    When he started to talk about stables and mares I started crying of laughter. There’s seriously something wrong with this man💀

  • Abby S
    Abby S Rok temu +5677

    Ooookay. I just need to say this.
    The term “stable” is actually a term used by sex traffickers.
    This is problematic on so many levels.

    • MetaphoricallyRose
      MetaphoricallyRose Rok temu +2

      @Barrington James guys like Russell need to learn from you. Very well said

    • Pan simp
      Pan simp Rok temu +3

      Now I wonder if he’s a sex trafficker... pretty possible. I hope someone can look into that

    • Archana Achu
      Archana Achu Rok temu +4

      @Barrington James God bless you🥺❤❤

  • Velveteen Rhino
    Velveteen Rhino Miesiąc temu +1

    I appreciate that you have a stage and you use it to spread good things and not garbage, sir

  • sad_bongos
    sad_bongos 7 miesięcy temu +13

    I think what perfectly captures the pick up artists is that scene from the amazing world of gumball where Nicole thinks what would have happened if she never met Richard and she imagines her living with Harold Wilson and he just insults Nicole to the point where she burns the house dowm

  • Loretta Cirelli
    Loretta Cirelli 6 miesięcy temu +5

    these guys just kinda make me sad. like I'm still in school and there are guys like that there. it sucks, but I'm glad Kurtis is talking about it. Love from Australia ❤

  • Doss
    Doss 3 miesięcy temu

    The “you’re… un-stable” line made me laugh way more than I’d like to admit.

  • rObyn
    rObyn 10 miesięcy temu +11220

    Imagine going through all the pain during pregnancy,difficulties raising a child.....and this is how the child turns out

    • Baconator2558
      Baconator2558 3 miesięcy temu

      Not a chance he comes from a loving household.

    • Doggy the Anarchist
      Doggy the Anarchist 3 miesięcy temu +1

      @Bobby Thompson everyone with kidneys can get kidney stones. The only reason why men have them slightly more often, is because men live less healthy than women, on average.
      Drink more alcohol and so on.
      And lots of women get them too. I don't understand why you even think that is relevant on a video about A misogynistic pick up artist ?
      What is your point?

    • Eva idk
      Eva idk 3 miesięcy temu

      I'd got to the store to buy some milk if that happen.

  • Sensible Cryptid
    Sensible Cryptid 3 miesięcy temu +2

    This guy is about as good at pick-up lines as a seahorse is at track running.

  • Adel Baranovska
    Adel Baranovska 4 miesięcy temu +2

    "imagine you're related to Russel Heartly"
    God forbid...

  • Dani T
    Dani T 4 miesięcy temu +4

    "I can use my gfs phone, if I ask nicely" Kurtis passed the vibe check

  • Brenda Diaz
    Brenda Diaz 2 miesięcy temu +14

    2:15 Son unos de los Likeex.Uno
    de los mejores conciertos ❤
    11:45 Sun: ''Hotter''
    12:22 Hopi: ''Sweeter''
    13:25 Joonie: ''Cooler''
    14:51 Yoongi: ''Butter''
    31:12 Son unos de los mejores conciertos ,
    , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente...
    15:55 Son unos de los mejores conciertos mga0 🖤